I love her and hate myself for still loving her after I found her passionate love letter to her batchmate, after 14 years of marriage and two great kids who we love very much. She is remorseful and my mood swings between regret for my past sins and misery. We been talking together as it is a matter of honour and she said she is proud of me for having got over the issue so easily. Her parents responded byasking her to get out of her sister's house where she is staying for the last one year for career purpose, and they along with her sister, the only few people who knew this matter, are not lending her any emotional support to her. As I am lot worried about her, I been with her all along for the past couple of weeks, confessing my mistakes and realising that she really has never thought of leaving me. When I called her parents not to put pressure on her, they said they would rather appreciate her, as I am loser. She feels bad about this as I do. How can I get rid of their evil influence
2007-02-05 15:56:49 · 5 answers · asked by havah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds as though you are both madly and deeply in love with each other and are willing to forgive and overcome any past wrong doings.
The love that you have for each other should rise above any evil influences and those influences will only go so far.
You're wife knows how she feels about you, no matter what anyone else has to say about it.
I admire you for the love and passion that you have to try and save your marriage.
2007-02-05 16:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by Nunya 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she loves u u love her that is all that matters, u also made mistakes as well as her. maybe the problem in the relationship all along has been influence on her by her family. the family does not care for u and it shows and that is the hard part, as u can't expect her to give up her family. just keep communicating with her, be supportive of her show her u are there for her, and she will have no reason to write to this other man.
2007-02-06 00:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I was in this place last year.I tried to hold on for last year.She ended up doing it again.She gave that same i never planned to leave you but cheated anyways.That to me makes it worse.That means she has no respect for you.I advice so you don't waste a year of your life like me.Worry about yourself put her out of your head talk to her as little as possible.
2007-02-06 02:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by Bruce S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not following your problem here. Your wife cheated by letter or physical act? Did you forgive her or not? Did you have the same transgression? Are you mad that her parents aren't supportive? Are you mad that the in-laws think you are a loser?
This is all over the place and I can't tell what the heck you are after.
2007-02-06 00:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by csucdartgirl 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This is the most simple and best way to fix this.
Step 1
Find a nice solid wall
Step 2
Ram head into it
Step 3
Repeat untill you forget
2007-02-06 00:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by toymod 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋