i am 15, my girlfriend is 16 and were not sure if shes pregnant or not but shes showing symptoms and signs and we just wanna know what the best way to tell our parents would be... plzwe are both very scared, and we know that we messed up but we dont know how to tell our parents
2007-02-05 15:50:07 · 18 answers · asked by chad j 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Don't any of you teenagers know what condoms are for? Don't they teach you about sex in school anymore?
2007-02-06 01:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by j.f. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... i would do it at home together one set of parents at a time. don't dance around the subject just tell them as maturely as you can....try and rehearse what your going to say... it won't go according to plan but it helps knowing what your going to say. Also be prepared for the very worst reaction possible. Get a home pregnancy test, and if it's positive go to a clinic and get it checked again. Depending on the state, your girlfriend can get free medical assistance to help with medical costs and cover the pregnancy test. But there is no easy way to tell them your just going to have to do it. I will pray for you in your time of need and i have a little brother who's 15 and your being very brave and mature for your age. So good luck . life is never an accident.
2007-02-05 16:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by Amory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is showing signs and everything why is it you have not bought a pregnancy test yet? You know you can buy them at the dollar store for a dollar.
You both acted as adults when you both laid down to have sex so man up and tell your all's mommies and daddies.
If she is pregnant then get a job and say goodbye to your life for the next 18 plus years. Have fun knowing you are putting yourself in a place where you made yourself grow up before your time.
2007-02-05 17:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I can't say that anything you say to your parents is going to make them feel any better about the situation but you have to tell them. I would first make sure she is pregnant before you tell them. And if she is not I would make sure you remember this before you have sex again. After all it is hard to take care of a baby even more so at your age. I wish you the best.
2007-02-05 15:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 11:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit both your parents down over dinner and tell them that your going to be parents and that their having a new grandbaby. Tell them you know you did a bad mistake but are willing to raise your baby for the next 18 years of it's life and won't have sex again until your married.
2007-02-06 03:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay the 1st thing that i would reccomend y'all to do is make sure she is pregnant for sure 1st and no matter how hard it's going to be just tell them straight up, let them know what both of ur decisions are (keeping the baby...etc..) and pray, good luck
2007-02-05 15:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them right away if she's pregnant, parents doesn't like surprises especially the bad ones. If you wait a little longer, you might not able to fix the problem ( if you're considering an abortion)
2007-02-05 23:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by 結縁 Heemei 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1...Make sure she is pregnant before saying anything to your parents. Take 2 or 3 tests(or more) and confirm one way or the other.
#2...If she is pregnant, tell your parents immediatly. That way she can get the proper prenatal care that she (and the baby) needs.
#3...If she isnt pregnant, for yours and hers sake, do not say anything to your parents because they will always be in ya'lls business. Not to mention that they won't want you to see her anymore and vise versa.
#4...Get on birth control and use condom if she isnt pregnant and doesn't want to be
#5..She doesn't want to be...trust me..i got pregnant when i was 14 and like i said...its just not a good idea.
2007-02-05 16:18:58 · answer #9 · answered by Holli 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First, you have to tell them right away and straight to the point. Tell them you're both sorry and that you messed up. Tell them you both need their help. And that you are willing to raise the child even if it means sacrificing your own life and lifestyle..
Expect them to be angry but they won't be angry that long... they will understand eventually and help you and your gf.
Pray!
2007-02-05 15:56:31 · answer #10 · answered by Charmaine * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a pregnancy test (I hope it is negative) if not tell your parents if it is negative take that as a good wake up call and be more careful!!
2007-02-06 00:01:37 · answer #11 · answered by ?Sherbear ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋