I moved to another side of the world few years ago. Now its time to decide either I stay there or go back home. Before I was with my b/f it was easy, I decided if things dont go the way I want them to, then I'll go home. But now I have him here. Its still a new relationship, and its hard to tell if its leading into marriage. If I stay, what would be the things I should consider dealing with in the future living that far away from my family? If I decide to leave, should I break things off with him when I decide to leave, or wait till the day I actually leave?
2007-02-05 15:30:13 · 5 answers · asked by avator_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, I do know that its not going to be easy, Ive grown up a little. I do miss my family, because I cant visit them as often. I do not consider returning home - my parents home. My boyfriend moving closer is not happening, he's not going to leave the country.
2007-02-06 12:16:18 · update #1
I would say go back home for now even if it is for a short time and see if this still happens even when you go back home. If he is the right guy for you he will end up moving closer to you and to your family and he will marry you either way. At least go and visit your family for a few months or so and see them again. I am sure you miss them. When and if you do marry you may want to be closer to your family if at all possible.
2007-02-05 15:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only u would know if u are happy with him, if it weren't good u would know and have some major complaints, it will never be as easy as living at home, at home your parents take care of u, living elsewhere u have to be the adult. maybe u are just not mature enough, or grown up enough, growing up means u have to give up things and sometimes that's darn right painful to do, only u can decide based on circumstances i guess, but life is no bed of roses really it isn't, life is hard, not at all like when we were growing up and being taken care of by our parents. it would be good and fair of u to discuss this with him before actually packing your bags, so he could have a chance to respond and make things better for u. it is often because our parents have spoiled us terribly and not prepared us for life as it really is. good luck
2007-02-05 15:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a hard decision. Use your common sense. None of your cons make sense. No offence, but I would expect all these cons from a Buddist or Vegan. Are you serious about studying or not? It takes sacrifice. Don't you think we've all had to make painful sacrifices? Be an adult.
2016-03-29 07:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave and go home as you don't know what you want and you are ready to give up. Go home to mommy and daddy! He's better off if you leave him now than after he asked you to marry. Be gone with you!
2007-02-05 16:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back home
2007-02-05 15:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋