who thinks that if you love someone after a few years should you get married?
2007-02-05 15:23:17 · 8 answers · asked by ASHLEE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If that's what the both of you want, then go for it, but right now if your happy with the way things are, why rush it?
2007-02-05 15:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is easy -- marriage, like most contracts, is tantamount to work. my advice? skip marriage, and let love flow. if you need the engagement ring, the bridal shower, the five-tiered wedding cake, the 500 attendee religious ceremony, the honeymoon in the tropics, the four bedroom two bath two car garage home in the suburbs, the organic baby food for the twins, the weight watchers / nutrisystem diets, the playdates, the interminable "intimacy dry spells," the babysitting co-ops, the la petite academy / montessori elementary / private 8 - 12 education, the six-yr plan tuition at a liberal arts university in new england where the twins will major in something spiritual and enlightening, then be prepared for the love of your life to end his courtship with you after about six months. sincere men will tell you that they are afraid to get married because they fear the nature of your companionship will change.
2007-02-05 16:01:14 · answer #2 · answered by tjacobmill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what you think. If you want to get married after being in love for a while, then it's a wonderful way to show eternal devotion to that special someone.
2007-02-05 15:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by Radgar E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love & marriage are a good combination . You can have love without marriage but I don't believe in marriage without love & it takes a lot of hard work & compromise on both sides to keep the marriage alive.
2007-02-05 15:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by Sandi Beach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In All Honesty at 18 i does no longer, i do no longer plan to get married for approximately 5 or 6 years and that i might go with to adventure that variety of intimacy with a companion. in spite of if do no longer enable that make you think of i'm uncomplicated, i in basic terms had intercourse with one companion who i've got confidence might sooner or later be my husband and if we've been to interrupt up from him it would be an prolonged time previously i enable yet another guy this close, if i might of made it to twenty-5+ as a virgin i might go with to hold out for a guy with the comparable restraint and values
2016-12-17 10:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an individual thing. I think it is wonderful way to show that you are bound together willingly in many ways...but not everyone is comfortable with that.
2007-02-05 15:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by BellyRubz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do, but love isn't everything. U have to be sure that u are compatible w/ the person u love.
2007-02-05 15:26:43 · answer #7 · answered by fldrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do....and its totally right..but you should think serious if you really love that person...because your gonna have to spend the whole life with him......
2007-02-05 15:30:19 · answer #8 · answered by my angel is 2 1/2 now:) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋