My good friend talks to random people on myspace and it hasn't really been a problem..........until now! There is this guy( who looks about 20 btw) who talks to her and calls her sexy and his display name is "******* Is sooooo HOT" at first I thought she knew him because I don't go to her school anymore and in that school all the older kid were friends with the younger so I thought okay its fine. One day I clicked on his myspace and it said he was 16 and lived in a whole different state and he is graudating in 2008 (were only 12!!!!!) I'm worried now. What if he trys to met her??? I keep asking her if she know's him but she says yes but I don't belive her. What should I do???
2007-02-05 15:21:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Myspace can be a scary thing, and there's definitely crazy people out there. Try to ask her more questions about him like how she knows him and how often they hang out. Be honest with her and tell her you're worried about her safety.
2007-02-05 15:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by good luck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you're friend should be extremely grateful that you're watching out for her. Just tell your friend the dangers of internet usage. There are many people on myspace that pose as 16 year olds that could potentially be old perverted men that needs to get a life. There has been several incidents involving myspace and young girls going off to meet "20 year old" guys. You're friend is acting really naive although she may think she is "mature" but at 12, seriously, you guys shouldn't even have a myspace. Good luck!
2007-02-05 15:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 11:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really about the most you can do it pop in at the most inconvenient times and say...WHAT'S UP!!?? Or just bring up conversations about stuff you heard on the news or something about what she's doing. Don't go for her directly. Cause she'll probably think your trying to control her actions and they'll just make her angry. So unfortunately there's not really a whole bunch you can do without totally T-ing her off!!
2007-02-05 15:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That can be scary. You are right to be concerned for her. Just try to keep talking to her about it and maybe try to point out in a way that doesnt alienate her that he seems a little weird to you or that you don't think you like him. If it continues, you may want to tell her parents (but see if there is a way that they don;t have to tell her that you told them). You need to protect her and if that means maybe getting her a little upset with you, it is worth it in the end. Maybe it is nothing, but there are too many stories of things that happen to girls because of those types of relationships. Just try to get her to open up to you about him...
2007-02-05 15:26:31 · answer #5 · answered by Smiles :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without over doing it, I would remind my friend that there are some real jerks out there to be careful of. They all sound so sweet in the beginning. Also tell her that if he attempts to meet her and she decides she wants to, tell her you want to go with her so she isn't alone, and make it in a public place. Then if you aren't comfortable with it...just between you and me, tell someone like an adult to follow you or watch out for you. You don't have to ever tell her you had someone follow you. Also if he is genuine, he will not mind her bringing a friend or meeting in a public place. He will understand.
2007-02-05 15:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by a17blossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her to block him from her Myspace, he is obviously some kind of weirdo. Make sure she stops contacting him ASAP before something bad happens..
2007-02-05 15:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to cut it off. I'm mean what's the point if no good can come from it (and none can.)Seriously, there's better people to talk to ones that aren't so creepy.
2007-02-05 15:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anna C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful.
Have her mention stuff like this:
"My mother was reading my email today..." or "My dad was looking at my MySpace site..." and see how he reacts to that!
2007-02-05 15:26:25 · answer #9 · answered by reslstancelsfutlle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel, and tell her that you know shes lying to you, and that you think its very dangerous for her to be talking to some random pervert.
2007-02-05 15:25:02 · answer #10 · answered by ~Val~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋