In short, met a male scorpio thru co-worker 4 months ago at dinner. At the end we said "nice to meet you, goodbye" He got my number from the co-worker a couple of days later & started calling me every other day for a month & a half. Then he initiates a conversation & said "I really like U & here in about a month or so, I might come to U about taking this thing to the next level. But I want to make sure that U are mentally and emotionally prepared for it " Literally after that conversation, we spoke one time a week later and I never heard from him again. Now a month and a half later and he text me out the blue and invited me to go out. Long story short, I went out with him that night and he was on me all night long like I belonged to him. & said "I want to apologize for the way I handled things, but I had my reasons. Ex was still causing drama & I didnt want you to go throught that. I invited you out so i could tell u 2 your face" Now he calls about once a week. What are his motives?
2007-02-05 15:17:58 · 9 answers · asked by Bird 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
He's a typical Scorpio in this respect. He did ask you if you were emotionally and mentally prepared, correct? Well, there you have it.......let the games begin!!! It's nothing bad, but a Scorpio man's way of testing you to see if you can handle him, accept him for exactly who he is, how true and honest you are and if he can trust you. Love and Trust are not 2 things that come very easily to them. They need to know 100% before diving all the way in. Getting their feet wet a little at a time is their strategy. They are afraid of getting their feelings hurt and having their ego bruised. Seeming weak and vulnerable is not their thing. If you are a strong individual, with lots of patience and willingness to understand and accept him for who he is, then you have a mighty good chance of hooking a Scorpio man. It takes time and they go slow..........with caution. They're sensitive souls with a need to be secretive and mysterious. The majority of the time, it doesn't have anything to do with you, so don't worry or assume the worst. They require their own space sometimes to think and analyze their feelings and thoughts. Don't ever push with a Scorpio. Allow him to be himself. If he's still taking your phone calls, then it's a good sign!!!!! If he calls at all, it's a good sign.
2007-02-05 16:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by artutina 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Scorpios are very secretive.If they don't tell u every thing it is probably for your own good. He probably knew it was something he had to be a man about and he wanted to work through it frst before yall got serious. Scorpios really don't have any reason to lie. I'm a scorpio female,if he was lying he was probably protecting u. Communication is the key with scorpios. Just come out and Ask him the things u want to know, but don't be too judgemental with scorpios, give them a chance.
2007-02-06 10:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by Kels 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with a few others... scorpios do get hurt and take their time... but at the same time, scorpios seem to attract women who can cause problems (crazy may be closer to it at times) and he may have needed time to get her very away from causing a problem or he needed time to cut the strings with her completely as most scorpios will try to stick with one woman I find than playing the field.
I know some of my secretive action has scared a few women.. but at least you must think highly of him to come ask here instead of doing a fast dumping...
May want to find out what drama actually he was saving you from if you are curious on if he was thinking of your feelings or for him something else.
2007-02-06 15:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by gearbox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u serious the guy tells u the truth to yr face and your still complaining, at least he was nice enough to talk to u one on one that usually means he's making the effort and does like u, if your not interested tell him so and let another gal that appreciates an honest man have him. and for the record scorpio men are very up front they're only confusing to people who don't listen properly i know my brother is one
2007-02-05 16:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by mandiej81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer this question, may I refer you to artutina's Horoscopes question, "Do Scorpios like being touched?"
There are many replies there by Scorpio males, and yes mine is there too, which definitely may help you to understand a Scorpio male and his actions. In particular, look for Cister's answer. Cheers.
2007-02-05 16:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by WMD 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might just like to play with you a little because he might know that you are noticing these little things.. Maybe he wants you to like him and he did not like the fact that you got over him.. He probably noticed that and wants to get your attention back.. You are probably good for his ego.. I'd say leave him he doesn't worth it.. Check out his moon sign.. It might indicate how he thinks
2016-05-23 22:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His motive: He got another babe on the side. Girl, WAKE UP AND SMELL THE PIMP. Kick his messages to the recycle bin
2007-02-05 15:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by Mo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Typical. He's controlling and posessive. Probably has a few screws loose too. Stay away.
2007-02-05 15:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont give any hope to avoid unwanted dissapointment.
2007-02-05 15:22:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋