Why can't I stand any critisicm?

Question

I know that I'm not so good on English grammar.But,I'm exerting my effort even typing on this message.I already ask a bunches of people about my personal trouble dealing with social life.Some respond that I'm so dumb (who can't even write sentences properly).I just can't take those criticisms,why would some people say that?Don't they think I might be only an highschool student or an immigrant?Are those critisicms for good or bad sake?

Answer 1

Hm. I don't know, but I will tell you that when I read your words and thought they came from an American adult, it made me think "you are on the autism spectrum". I have a child who is autistic and have recently found some interesting videos in my research and I'd like to share one in particular with you: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZAM95TntLTE (In any case - my point is more that people do bring their own perspective and interpretation to what they read.)

Alternatively, you are absolutely right. English is taught around the world and I am always impressed to see people using their 2nd language and happy to give them every assistance that I can. I wish I was brave enough to venture out in my very limited 2nd language - which happens to be german.

I will also say that I get disturbingly malicious responses to seemingly innocent questions sometimes - I usually just delete the question, assuming I have not made myself clear. Surely no one would respond to me in that manner in person - and you must remember the same thing. Mean people and mean responses usually have to more do with the insecurities, personality flaws and bad days of others, rather than with you personally.

Resolve not to take any of this to seriously - none of us really matter for you anyway. We are all just voices in the dark here, really. Listen to the nice ones and ingore the ingnorant - and make our world a better place.

Peace!

Answer 2

The thing is we are not our intellect. If we take it personal that means we are on the platform of false ego. We are not our mind, body, intellect, senses, race, nationality, religion, etc. we are eternal spirit souls, part and parcel of the Supreme Soul, also known as Krishna, Jehovah, Allah, etc. We have nothing to do with this material world because it is all Maya (illusion) temporary and full of misery. Want more info. go to harekrishnatemple.c Read Bhagavad Gita as is by Bhaktivedanta Prabhupada- tells the purpose of human life.
Any way when someone criticizes you it is not about you, it is about them. They are only judging from their own reality, which is just a concoction of their idea of their own illusion. Even if you criticize yourself it is not necessarily truth.

Answer 3

How do you react even as human beings grant you with grievance?? Do you get cranky and protecting? perchance all people is truly attempting that could want to be sensible you and also you're taking it the incorrect way. I worked with a Russian woman who change into too embarrassed to talk english with me because she couldnt talk okay. She grew to change into quite smooth with me and truly began attempting to have interaction with human beings, all she mandatory change into some self assurance and someone with sufferers

Answer 4

If it's in a homework assignment or something, you could try sitting down with the teacher to go over the grammar. Don't let them bug you, but realize they're trying to help you out.

If it's on Yahoo! Answers, people who pick on grammar are only trying to make themselves feel better. Don't let them bug you, they are assholes.

Answer 5

Because we can only see what you write, people who don't write well are at a disadvantage when using message boards. It isn't right to judge people that way, but unfortunately, that is how it usually goes.

Answer 6

people are just assholes. dont let them bug you.