I am still in love with the girl who broke my heart, I still dream of a future with her even though she disappeared in April 06 and I haven't seen her since. I can't accept that she's gone...I still see her around even though she doesn't notice I'm there. I still love her and want to be with her, I don't want anyone else...what am I supposed to do? I can't get over this. I don't know if I can ever be with someone else. Is she really gone? I still think that maybe she's just scared, she really did love me back and is just unsure...or anything. Anything except the idea that she didn't love me back and could not even stay friends.
2007-02-05 15:11:13 · 9 answers · asked by jelliclecatharsis 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hey man,,,,,I really can unedrstand ur emotions......But this is life........u have to accpet some facts which u never want to.......
U have to kep moving......
Forget ur past,,,it is ahistory
Don think about future,,,,it is a mystery
Live in today, coz today is a gift and thats y this is called PRESENT...........
so just forget what ever happened and live for happiness.....
2007-02-05 15:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by summeravi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could give you an easy answer, but there isn't one. It took me close to five years to get over the man who broke my heart. For most of that time, I did pretty much what you are doing now, trying to convince myself that there was still a chance things would work out and he would fall in love with me as I had with him. It never happened. I actually wondered if I could ever feel complete again.
However, over time, things started to change for the better. I began to think about other guys and get crushes. At first I felt guilty about this, feeling as if I owed some sort of loyalty to him but I forced myself to stop this and allow myself to feel attraction for another man. Then I began flirting with guys, then going on dates, and now I am at a place where I can open myself up emotionally to some one.
My personality changed as well, I have more confidence than I've ever had and I'm not nearly as passive about life as I had been.
I'm not going to lie to you, your gonna go through hell and back. Love does that to people. Just know that it will get better
2007-02-05 15:49:06 · answer #2 · answered by Mad Hatter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fortunate side of love is it's power to make you feel like you are invincible. The unfortunate side of love is the vacuum it can create in your life when the person you cherish is oblivious to you. It would take the strength of a superhero to withstand this vacuum and remain intact. Perhaps my friend, you have the makings of a superhero and must have this vacuum in your live to make it come out. Good Luck.
2007-02-05 15:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by teentitanliz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's gone. You have to pick up the pieces and go on. It's not easy and it takes a long time to heal. Be good to yourself. Now is the time to regroup and move along in your life.
2007-02-05 15:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't made any progress yourself in about a year and it's causing problems, then you might want to seek professional help working through this.
2007-02-05 20:21:05 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a baloon
Decorate it.
Write all your feelings on it.
Go in our back yard.
And let it fly away
WATCH it fly away.
FEEL it fly away
CHOOSE to let it go
Your feelings are your choices.
You are only prolonging your time until you meet your life mate....get over this......so you can be in love again........
Get the balloon.....it works..
2007-02-05 15:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dam stop pick at the scab if you want it to heal. Lord girl get over it.
2007-02-05 16:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by JUSTIN C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out and meet another chick to go diving with - once you've gone down on another chick you will forget the last one...
2007-02-05 15:15:21 · answer #8 · answered by no_skank76 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like you need some counseling to help you deal with your feelings and help you get over her. the more you talk to a counselor the better you will be able to handle letting go. also you may need meds to help too. talk to a doctor they can help. GOOD LUCK!!
2007-02-05 15:20:28 · answer #9 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋