ok, i have some friends i hang out wit at lunch, i mostly dont talk because they either interrupt me or think that watever i say is stupid and they make a face, even my best friend does that (so called best friend) i always feel left out. wat should i do?
2007-02-05 15:05:56 · 5 answers · asked by milagros g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
girlie, if your 'friends' are like that, than they aren't true friends, are they? if they think that you are stupid, and make faces and all, then i must ask : what the heck are you even doing with them?
these people are NOT your friends. really. nobody you could even remotely consider a friend would do that. except for weird idiots.
i'm sure you can find way better people than the people you're hanging out with now. and even if you can't, remember this : it's better to be a loner than getting trashed by fake friends.
let's take time to consider the pros and cons of being a loner. i'm not saying that you will, though.
pros
- you won't be trashed by ANYONE.
- you can do what you want when you want, and no one will be there to say anything
cons
- as the name suggests, you will be lonely.
i'm sure you know some people, right? why don't you try hanging out with them? why stick with these fake losers?
i know it'll be hard. you have been with these people, and now you're just leaving, and who knows WHAT they'll say about you? but you know what, dearie? you shouldn't CARE. really, you shouldn't. even if you stick with them, they might still be trashing you on the phone or whatever. you never know. the good thing is that even if they DO trash you, you won't know. you can only ASSUME. which, if you ask me, isn't as good as KNOWING. cause you don't have PROOF.
yes, it will still be hard, but try telling yourself that it is for your own good, and if you leave them now, it's better than if you stick with them, get used to being with them, and, when they decide to drop you, end up getting seriosuly seriously hurt.
i don't think they even want you around. no offense, okay?
you are a little naive, though, if you think that they actually are your friends. no offense again.
so just break away from this fake group, and go find some real friends. it might take a while, but you'll find them.
good luck, and hope this helped.
2007-02-05 19:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by LAVELLE! :] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find other friends to hang out with.
I know it might seem tough, but if you can find a new group of friends to hang out with at lunch, it will be for the best!
It can be tough sometimes, but it's worse having to put up with that.
I hope that you find a group of friends that will respect what you have to say. Good luck girl! :)
2007-02-05 23:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by kitties_n_llamas(Becca) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well get a new gropup of friends..
apparently your so called "friends" don't appreciate you.
i know how you feel.
hope everything works out and i wish you the best of luck@!
2007-02-05 23:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by Victoria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find different friends.
2007-02-05 23:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by The Pope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get new friends that will listen to you
2007-02-05 23:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by kingajs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋