When asked, "what would be worse: being in unrequited love or being in mutual love that could never be expressed?"someone on Yahoo Answers replied, "The latter, because at least in the first situation one of the people could be happy."
What a sick thing to say! To suggest that someone could be happy knowing they broke someone's heart...and clearly that person had never had their heart horribly broken like mine and been so depressed and unhappy... How could someone say such a thing?!
2007-02-05 14:43:41 · 18 answers · asked by jelliclecatharsis 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
In all honesty, that's what opinions are about. It doesn't matter how you feel about what that person said, in the grand scheme of things. Try considering this - that person may have not known the meaning of the word 'unrequited'. That's most likely the case. But anyway, back to my original lesson, in opinions, it's all about what YOU think, what YOU feel, NOT the other person. So basically, unless it's fact, it's fiction. Because it's fiction, it doesn't matter.
2007-02-05 14:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by C.B. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, I don't think said person was trying offend you. They were asked their opinion, and so it was given. That you found it sick and cruel has nothing to do with why the answer was given. I think you need to take a deep breath, and actually reason out why said person answered as they did, and you'll find that you were just oversensitive.
I am sorry you're hurting right now, and life will go on as it always does, and it'll seem like it's just in spite of you that it does so. You can't let relationships get you down, because there will always be somebody else who'll fit your standards; that's why the world comes in as many varieties as it does.
I wish you the best.
2007-02-05 15:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by dorkpangs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you through out a double question asking for someone elses view. You are struggling right now with a broken heart and that is going to make you react to answers you don't like. Take time to ment your heart and work on inner happiness and soon someone will see you for the person inside and this experience will only make you stronger. Best of luck.
2007-02-05 14:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone told me once about a relationship: it's either you or him being happy; so it's better be you. Do you know why people said such thing? It's because they don't care. It's every man for himself. Somehow society has taught some people to be more selfish - it's always "me" and what's in it for me. That's why you need God in the center of any relationship because God is Love.
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
2007-02-05 15:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being really dramatic over nothing... honestly. So you would choose to be in unrequited love? I'm sure someone feels just as stongly as you do about the first choice. Does it really truly matter?
2007-02-05 14:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by gravytrain036 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they have a miserable relationship so they say that. Once they dump someone they were happy having the control. His problem. Don't take it personal.
2007-02-05 14:50:54 · answer #6 · answered by Skylar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is loaded. It is normal to feel affection for a number of people. There are various ways to express affection.
The Almighty gave us a great gift of love marriage and sex. If you take it apart, you destroy it.
2007-02-05 14:47:57 · answer #7 · answered by hasse_john 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The point of this forum is to exchange information and OPINIONS if you do not want these then I would suggest that you not ask. Not everyone is going to say what you want to hear as it would be.
2007-02-05 14:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by SUPERSTAR X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's logic, cool cold logic. Completely detached of emotional influence. Taking out how you feel that is actually the most logical answer.
2007-02-05 14:53:19 · answer #9 · answered by Rageling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it was the question and we all have the right to our own opinions and what we would choose. i'm sorry your heart was broken and your hurting, but if your looking for comfort your not always going to find it on here. if you need to talk feel free to contact me.
2007-02-05 14:47:58 · answer #10 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋