Please read my first question. He kept calling me continuously, for a month. And I finally responded, he wanted me to visit him, but I did not. I dont trust him, that he is all clear in his mind. He is still not filed for divorce. He says he will wait for his daughter's graduation this April before finalizing his divorce, is this another excuse? Although he is not back with his wife and he is not with a woman. He says he is getting a new lawyer this month, I told him I want to see the papers before I meet him. I am scared to let him in my life again. He hurt me, he was insensitive and he lied. I cant rely on him. Whenever I give him a chance, he neglects me but when I don't he dies to be with me.
2007-02-05 14:07:50 · 12 answers · asked by sweethoney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
say no.
someone who only loves you when they can't have you.... does not really love you...
i personally learned this lesson the hard way.
2007-02-05 14:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by foo__dd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The man loves the chase, and wants what he cannot have. Think what would happen if you make a committment with this man. You see he cheats on his wife, why would his relationship with you be any different. I'm sure you've heard all of this before, but think about it this way, are you the type of person to cheat? Does it depend on who you are with, or do you have set morals for yourself. A man who cheats has no morals, that's not the type of person you want in your life.
2007-02-05 22:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is difficult to say no to someone who is pursuing you but you want to be with a person who respects you and if he has lied to you he is not showing you that.
2007-02-05 22:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by kvw9880 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him NO! I have been there before it will never work! You will Never be able to trust him again! Trust me on this don't waste your time!
2007-02-05 23:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong and do not go back. He realized what he lost, but once he gets it back, if you give in, he will still be the same old loser.
2007-02-05 22:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read again through what you wrote.
You gave him enough chances to hurt you.
2007-02-05 22:12:10 · answer #6 · answered by avechm 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This sounds complicated, first thing you need to do is seek God and you shall find Him, He is the only one who can help you.....Jesus loves you
2007-02-05 22:14:55 · answer #7 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a guy like him in your life, you will be hurt again.
2007-02-05 22:13:44 · answer #8 · answered by Nort 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on and find a satisfying relationship.
2007-02-05 22:15:30 · answer #9 · answered by soozemusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question with the last few sentences of your comment.
2007-02-05 22:13:10 · answer #10 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋