He won't tell me anything................?

Question

my boyfriend generally communicates well with me. he tells me when something's wrong, he makes a point of being totally honest with me at all times, if i'm doing something he doesn't like he'll let me know.....he even trusts me with his facebook password. if that's not ultimate trust then i dunno what is. but whenever something happens like he gets into a fight with someone or he's having a bad day or someone calls me up and says, "i think something happened 2 ur bf today, maybe u shud talk to him about it," he doesn't say a word. in situations like that, its always "nothing." it can't be a trust issue cuz we took care of that already, but why won't he just fill me in? he won't even tell me WHY he won't tell me......what am i supposed 2 do????

Answer 1

ultimate trust is when he shares his darkest secrets to you or he gives you his bank account's password.

i think you should persist at asking him what the problem is because most guys don't like to make us unhappy by telling us all the bad stuff that's happening in their lives... on top of persistence, you could encourage him to share with you so that he will feel better too... maybe ask him why he won't share with you... whatever it is, make sure he gives you a better answer than "nothing"... DON'T EVER be satisfied with the answer "nothing" when you know there's something wrong... just pressure it out :) seriously i think he's the kind who bottles his thoughts/feelings/troubles... same like me... :D