I know this guy for twelve years (we met in college), and then couple of years ago we had a brief relationship and got pregnant. Since he didn't want to get together with me and assume patternity (he's already a single parent of a 13 year old), I wasn't ready mentally and financially to have a baby;I decided to get an abortion. it was very difficult decision and I went into a deep depression....plus I had complications, which I almost died. He never called me again not even to find out if I was ok and since I didn't call either, we lost contact for two years; until now that he got my email address through my other friend (that doesn't know about this whole deal) and he offered me a job.
I hated him for being a coward and not taking responsibility for his actions and for not showing any feelings for my well being. he's asking me what have I been up to...I don't want to answer his email, yet I want to show that my life is much better without him. I don't know what to do....
2007-02-05 13:46:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave it well alone have nothing more to do with him don't even read his e.mail. he let you down once don't give him the opportunity to do it again, he is obviously an asshole and you are better off with him out of your life hes the sort of guy that gives a bad name to all us honest guys out here and makes it so no girl will believe what a guy has to say, he is not a coward he is an asshole and if i could meet him i would give him a punch in the nose for you, take care and believe me he is no good and will never be, don't even tell him off as he will only make excuses, and try to make things seem right, these sort always do
2007-02-05 13:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by bazbikes49 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think no reply would say it all, don't you? Don't feel obligated to write back just because he wrote you. If you feel better off without him, why would you even give him a hint of how you are or what you are doing. Ignore the email and continue on with your life.
2007-02-05 22:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer this email. There is no satisfaction down this alley, just confusion, pain and more issues. There is freedom in not writing back, and your lack of a response will tell him that you don't need him. Better things lie ahead.
2007-02-05 21:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe once a coward always a coward! Just shut him off like you did before. He wil try to confuse you with lovely words, but thats just words no action.
Ask yourself what did you get out of him, except pain. Are you willing to receive pain again?
2007-02-05 21:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by sweethoney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's a better one. Why don't you leave him wondering for the rest of he's life how much better you are without him and what he missed while he had a chance. Bet you when he's lying on he's death bed he'll think about you and regreat about taking off.
2007-02-05 21:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking this question again? You got 17 answers and most of them told you not to email the SOB for what he did to you. Move on!
2007-02-05 21:50:59 · answer #6 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think Ur right not to answer his email
give him a wide berth because he has shown he was willing to get you into stuff and then back out - and you nearly lost your life
he doesn't love you - that is pretty clear
avoid him like the plague and i am sure you will find someone better
2007-02-05 22:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by Aslan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not answer his email. Write him off as an insensitive jerk. Why the need to impress him with how well you are doing? He sounds like an irresponsible loser. Let it go
2007-02-05 21:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by penny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has moved on and so should you. Unless you had prevented him from contacting you in any way previously. Meaning, he did try and you turned away. If so, then it's up to you now.
2007-02-05 21:57:51 · answer #9 · answered by soozemusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont talk to him it really isnt worth what it will do to you just forget him and keep moving on with your life you dont want to put yourself back in that deep depression if you do decide to answer the e mail guard your feelings dont let him have the power of disturbing your life again!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-05 21:55:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋