I want a horse?

Question

I really want a horse but my parents aren't into getting one. They cost a lot. How can I convince them to let me get one?

Answer 1

Get a job and start saving...

Answer 2

I've had several students over the years whose parents would not allow them to have a horse for various reasons. I think maybe the place to start is by asking for riding lessons from a local stable in your area. There are several ways to pay for lessons, and many times a stable will allow you to work in exchange for lessons.

As a "working student" you learn valuable stable management tools that you will need in the future should you get a horse. As you train and learn in the stable your parents will see your level of dedication to the horse and I've seen many parents ultimately buy a horse.

You may also look into leasing a horse, or going in with another student in a similar circumstance as a part lease. Leasing is similar to ownership - you care and maintain the horse, ride it and have veterinarian care done when necessary, however you do not have to buy a horse. Many times an owner cannot ride, say they have an injury and cannot ride, but would like the horse exercised and cared for. Leasing is a win win situation for both the student and the owner.

Spend some time watching local trainers give lessons, visit local stables and meet the riders that ride. You ultimately will find a place that you like and if you are persistant and eager to please, I'm sure you can find a working student placement at one of them.

Good luck!

Answer 3

You would have to strike a deal, for example, you will ride everyday, pay half, feed everyday, et cetra. Horses are a lot of responsibility and take a lot of time so this needs to be something you have thought about and are very serious about. I've heard many younger people say they want this for the long term then just plain lose interest. Perhaps you could talk them into letting you lease a horse first. That would be a way for you to gain skills and knowledge, and if your still into horses bring up the idea of purchasing your own again.

Answer 4

You should go to local stables and see if you can't do work such as mucking out stalls, grooming, exercising, and cleaning tack in exchange for riding lessons. You should be an experienced rider and horse carer before you are a horse owner. I bet if you show your parents that you're responsible enough to earn lessons and that you're in this for the long haul that they may find the money to purchase a horse or let you lease one.
I know several parents that bought their children horses- because the kids insisted they would take care and ride them and less than 6 months after they bought the horses for their kids ended up having to find new homes for them because their children neglected them. Owning a horse is expensive and I'm sure your parents are worried that this might be a phase you're going through.
You just need to show them you're responsible and willing to stick with it.

Answer 5

Volunteer at a local stable, not work but volunteer. You have to muck the stables, groom the horses, and excercise them. Doing this for ATLEAST three months with out pay other than being with the horses shows you are really dedicated. Also, are you planning for college? Than how and where would you keep the horse? A horse is a good thirty year commitment. If you aren't planning to go to college, are you really sure that you can pay for your own living costs AND the horse's on minimum wage pay??? I would suggest getting one when you retire, until then, work at a stable or get lessons.

Answer 6

You can still go riding at the local stables. I know it's not the same as owning and being responsible for your own horse, but it's the only way your family can afford to let you enjoy your hobby and still balance the budget.
You should show them you understand that aspect of their decision.

Answer 7

I had to wiat 19 years before I finally had enough saved for my own. It's worth the wait. Mine weren't keen on my getting a horse either. Thats why I bought him myselof and I continue to pay for him myself. But some point to make arethey keep you out of trouble, and are great for responsibility.

Answer 8

They do cost but do you have the time to spend with a horse?

What do you know about horses. Have you done your homework in that area?

A great place to start your research is find a local horse rescue and find out what all is involved in owning a horse.

You can try and find a horse rescue here: http://www.mypetnanny.info/PD/index.htm Select rescues and then select your state.

Answer 9

That would be hard because horses are expensive and the make quite a mess. And training will cost a lot of money if you want it to ride.

Answer 10

get a job and buy your own. nelsons animal auction in lake delton wisconsin is a good place for a beginner you should be able to buy a horse there at low cost.

Answer 11

grow up, then find out how expensive they really are.

are you going to feed it, scoop the poop, brush it, etc EVERY DAY? if not, then you aren't ready. animals are a big responsibility, and you don't sound like you've researched it much.