well on saturday i got kinda drunk wit one of my oldest friends and im still a teenager...and we kinda made out but im not lesbian! and i feel really bad cause i like guys! and my other friend was there but she was not drinkin and ive never done anything like this! wat should i do to get over it?
2007-02-05 13:28:15 · 15 answers · asked by noelleschemicalromance162 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There is nothing you can do ,but move on. Why should you feel bad,every one has done something silly while being drunk. Move on with your life.If you keep thinking about it you'll never get over it.
2007-02-05 13:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept it. This happened. You did it. You got carried away. Once sober explain to your friends (the one you made out with and the onlooker) that you're straigth, at least for the time being. Chances are that later on, after reaching some maturity you may discover some other orientation within yuorself. However, you want to enojoy your teen aged years with boys.
And other thing: give drinking a second thought and a more serious consideration. Perhaps drinking and an inviting couch shouldn't be that interwoven in your outings, unless you want to get yourself into further awkward situations.
2007-02-05 21:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just about everyone will go there and try somthing when they are doing drugs,drinking,playing truth or dare,learning how to kiss,even just to experiance.it's a part of life that will show you somthing in life you arent a lesbo but people think it is wrong just cuz the bible says that it is a sin.you should except who people are and maybe people you hang with make fun of it and everything but it's simple you kissed a girl wow there are t hings in life you will have to worry about other than that. if the girl you kissed is a lesbo well tell her you were just drunk and you wanted to see what it was like i mean it is better than having sex with someone you don't know and ending up gettin preganent,a disease,or even called a whore.but your other friend might tell someone and that is a problem talk to both friends and tell 'em you are not a lesbo and you didnt mean anything by it but if they still tell that just shows they aint true friends and you need to make it clear that you don't go that way but make it clear that a true friend wouldn't have said anything i hope i am helping you out you do need to talk to them to let them no you are not like that and it was just somthing that happend
2007-02-05 21:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by babyboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know sometimes things happen when you are good some fun at the time then you wake up and say oh goodness did I do that. It does not mean that you are gay or whatever sometimes it just happens. Have done a few "oh goodness" things myself and now am married and have to kids. Just talk to her and tell her that it was an accident.
2007-02-05 21:32:19 · answer #4 · answered by msbutterfly7777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get over it by accepting it. Maybe you could talk about it and laugh about it... being drunk can make our inhibitions go away. Tell your friend how you feel about it now (a little embarrassed?) and then just move on.
2007-02-05 21:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by wishfulthinking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend and let her know that you are really sorry for what happened. It was the alcohol talking, not you. I would recommend you not drink so much - consider this event as a warning of what can happen when you drink too much!
2007-02-05 21:31:19 · answer #6 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink with older friend again and make out. Invite guys over too and charge them to watch you and your friend. Make sure your other friend who was not drinking last time is drinking this time so she can make money too. Repeat as necessary.
2007-02-09 17:14:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were drunk its not your fault. Mistakes happen. People do stupid things when there drunk. No worries .I would say stay away from that friend if she gonna get you into trouble.
2007-02-05 21:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well explain to her it was a drunken mistake but that you still care about her a lot ( as a friend) and as for not being a lesbien it just happens, your judgement and desicions change with drinking alcohol, it just happens sometimes. wish ya luck. drink responsibly hehe :]
2007-02-05 21:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you were you were caught up in the moment just talk to your friend and tell her you like guys and she should understand
2007-02-05 21:31:52 · answer #10 · answered by Happy Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋