I am going to be a transgender (FTM). But I never tell anyone since I was young. Because I physically stay as a girl in school and at home. I am afraid that they will think me a freak. I don't want that no one rejects me for who I am. what would be the best way to tell my friends about me ?
2007-02-05 13:26:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Tell them. Just tell them. Just blatently say it. Because if they think of you as a freak for any reason then guess what- they never were your real friends.
2007-02-05 13:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by Brento! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just set them down and tell them. Let them know you're tired of pretending to be someone you're not and hope for the best. If they walk away, then they weren't worth having around anyways. Move on and find true friends. Be careful outing yourself though. There are obvious right and wrong ways to do it. Telling a conservative, drunk pastor with a firearm might not be a good idea for example.
2007-02-06 04:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please contact pflag.org -- ot's a wonderful suportive group that helps everybody in the lgbt community and their friends and family. They will find someone for you to talk to. Hang in there. There are a lot of people in your shoes who are just as scared as you are. I can only hope your parents are supportive of you and you will get the money for the transition.
Wonderful dvd "Transgeneration" about 4 college students going thru their own trials during their transitions. Hugs.
2007-02-05 21:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by reme_1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you move to Hollywood? You won't have any such problems there and you will have a great life. You don't need to be waste your time dealing with this ****. Good Luck
2007-02-05 21:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is hard, tell them though. You can't keep it all inside. They should be real friends and except you for you.
2007-02-05 21:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by I'm here for now 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aw, well just sit down and tell them. im bisexual i like guys and girls so i no how it feels. just be yourself
& if they dont like you or support you then they arent real friends. good luck!
2007-02-05 21:30:48 · answer #6 · answered by mike 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont tell them ... why anyone would want to discuss their sexuality like that i will never understand ... its like this ... if u want them to know ur a freak tell them ... if u would rather be what u are, then be that and keep ur secrets urs alone or only to closest friends ...
2007-02-05 21:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋