OK...ME AND MY BOYFRIEND HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS ON AND OFF. AND WE BROKE UP SO HE STARTED TALKIN WITH OTHER GIRLS AND PROBABLY SEXUAL ACTIVIES...BUT AFTER LIKE A MONTH OR SO..OUT OF THE BLUE HE CALLED ME BACK AND WE EVENTUALLY GOT BACK TOGETHER SO TODAY WE WENT OUT TO EAT AND HE HAD GOT A CALL BUT DIDNT ANSWER SO I SAW THE NUMBER AND CALLED FROM MY PHONE...AND IT WAS A FEMALE..I ASKED WHO IS THIS? AND SHE MUST HAVE HEARD ALOT ABOUT BCUZ SHE KNEW EXACTLY WHO I WAS...AND I KNEW HER 2....SHE LIVES UP THE STREET FROM ME AND I KNOW PRETTY GOOD FROM SCHOOL...BUT I ASKED HIM IF THEY HAD SEX AND HE SAID NO!!!! THEN I CALLED BACK AND ASKED HER SHE SAID NO!!!! SO I BELIEVED THEM...BUT A WHILE BACK I ASKED HIM NICELY TO NOT TALK TO ANYONE ON MY SIDE OF TOWN...HE SAID OK BUT HE DID ANYWAY!!!!! I LOVE HIM HES MY FIRST TRUE LOVE!!!! I DONT KNO WHAT TO DO PLEASE HELP ME PEOPLE!!!!!!!
2007-02-05 13:21:43 · 5 answers · asked by .:MiiSS TayL0r:. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well just because you were broken up doent mean its not going to hurt. but you have to make it clear that these girls are nolonger aceptable in his life now that u guys are back together. if he cant do that hes not worth your time.
2007-02-05 13:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all:
When you set limits you have to stick to them. If you and he had that as a rule, you had it as a rule and it is a deal breaker. Many young ladies mess up the rest of their lives sticking to the old first love crap! It is crap when the guy is a creep! Catch my drift?
You are young and you must have it going on or else that dude would not have realized which side of the bread was buttered!
Time to diva-tize this relationship and move on.
I am an older woman and my rule is to not pick up the plow again once it has been dropped.
Evaluate why you broke up in the first place. Two years is long enough to establish trust and all that good stuff. It seems you have establish that you can not even trust him to not break the date rule-so what is next?
You may want to seek counseling if this guy is not stable. Be careful because some cannot handle rejection from a diva-o.k. diva!
It is your choice!
2007-02-05 21:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen you can't tell him what to do, I mean you can,but if hes wanting some on the side, hes gonna get some!
2007-02-05 21:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then why was she calling if they didnt hook up???sorry but it seems that he is using you because you are convenient for him
2007-02-05 21:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by kauaichic420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his sorry a$$
2007-02-05 21:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by peachie_pussie23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋