I'm 19 years old, I've gone through a lot and I've matured a lot, I see things differently, am I doing OK?

Question

Hello guys and girls of all ages. Yes, I've gone through a lot, and it's weird because it has been only 19 years, I wonder what other things are in store for me? Anyways, at an early age, I started having gang related problems, and I began developing a depression, I thought it was cool to hang out with my buddies, but the drama was too much. For several years I was in deep depression, I just wanted to kill myself, I felt very unconfident. I went to a therapist and that helped me a lot, thank god. Then I started seeing porn a lot, it turned to an addiction, and to this day I'm fighting the addiction because to me it's something very immoral and something degrading to society, in my view sex is private. I used to get sad because I'm not tall enough, but now I see people who are tall and I say to myself they are nothing special. I now go to church, and this time I believe in God. I want to go to college and go in to the area of law and raise a family afterwards, what do you think?

Answer 1

How about being a minister instead. I feel that being a Minister would be much more an internal rewards that money can't buy, but the pay isn't the best. Maybe you can interview a lawyer first to see if thats what you really want to do, same for Ministers.

Answer 2

How to avoid porn addiction on the Internet

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3. Never click on Web site addresses that you receive in an unsolicited email.

4. Do not open attachments that come in email that are unsolicited.

5. Use filtered search engines or reputable directories to find the information you need.

6. Do not search for terms like girls. Think before you enter a search term.


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