I've had a history of people making fun of me for some reason...I usually laugh it off, joke about it, etc...but really, I don't really like being walked on. How can a person become totally solid as a rock?
2007-02-05 13:04:51 · 6 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
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2007-02-05 13:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by silentnonrev 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The problem with laughing something off is that it is stemmed from the psychological defense mechanism humor. It shows you that you are actually really disturbed or hurt by this thing. To become completely stoic, you have to start caring alot less about many things in life. You have to make yourself not care about the simpler things but this jut represses your insecurity and shoves it into your subconscious and it would become part trauma for you. You can't really become solid. Sorry.
2007-02-05 21:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by Lying from you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only life experience will teach you the things you want to learn.
If you don't want them to joke about you and make fun of you then don't laugh it off. Just walk away or say something and they'll realize that you didn't like what they said. You laughing it off and joking about them making fun of you is just allowing them to do so. They think you don't care so they keep doing it. If you show that you care then they'll stop if they're your real friends. And if they don't then they were never your friends and you need to go meet new people.
2007-02-05 21:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a rock is never never emotional, a rock is hard lumpy and odd shape. and I haven't heard of any rocks being intelligent, are you sure you this is what you want> perhaps you getting counselling on self esteem, and self help is more what you should be looking at,
2007-02-05 21:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to start with your mind.....make sure you are never in denial....understand that "You GET what you MAKE".....don't ever depend on ANYONE to provide you with what you NEED in order to reach your goals (at least in the long run).......understand and accept what is RIGHT and not what you THINK is right...be humble....admit when you're wrong...but do your best to never give anyone any reason to say that you're wrong about the things you do in LIFE..........pay your dues so that they can't ever say that you owe them anything in the end.......if you live this way, before long, you'll find that the outcome of your life is not determined by the actions of others, but solely on your OWN actions....don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that the things that ignorant people do won't have any impact on your life whatsoever......but you ahve to be determined that you won't let anyone stop you...EVER!!!.....they push you down....you get back up and kick em in the nuts.....**** fighting FAIR, PEOPLE REMEMBER WHO WON....make them realize that you are not a COMPETITOR.....you're a man on a righteous mission who will succeed at ANYTHING he wants....EVEN IF IT TAKES FOREVER........you can't stop the process of evolution.....EVEN IF IT TAKES 20 YEARS....because, remember......YOU CAN'T EXPECT TO BUILD A KINGDOM ON JUST A FEW DAYS......so make up your mind......"Are you gonna allow yourself to become a slave to this ignorant world????? or Are you gonna say f**k this world and be a KING of your own"???
I'm not saying that the world is yours.....I'm just saying that Life is what YOU make of it (non one else).....
After you master the ability of your Mind......then you can work on your PHYSICAL form....you know, get buff, learn to defend yourself, go to the county jail and make it out alive...anyways if you want me to teach you more ....hit me up at my email.....raymoya83@yahoo.com....I'd be more than glad to help you along with your struggles in life, man.
Take care, but don't take no s**t!
2007-02-05 21:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by silent 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why is that not good enuf. if they are nto walking on you in your mind then they are nto. dotn let them,a nd they cant. i tried to eb a rock for 15 years and i snapped, it doesnt work, "no man is an island" be you, youll be fine, we need more peopl in this world, not rocks
2007-02-05 21:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by cav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋