(If you are a survivor.. I really need your help. I'm doing a case study)
1. can you share to me your story of being abuse? (PLS)
2. what is the background of your family?
3. how did you survive from that abuse?
4. after what happened in your past, how is your life now?
(you can send your answer in my e-add marie_1990_2007@yahoo.com )
tnx
2007-02-05 12:51:40 · 8 answers · asked by InIdUrhElp2007 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I'm a survivor of abuse, but the details are far too personal to reveal to an anonymous stranger on the internet.
2007-02-05 12:55:43 · answer #1 · answered by rita_alabama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Physica child abuse, rape from stranger, verbal abuse from a stepmother.
How did I survive? I am here now. Alive. Happy. All in the past. I cannot let myself be a victim of my own memories with all the 'bad' things that happened in my past. I can only be as strong as I want my life to be. The strength of surviving any abuse is to accept the bad things that happened and learn from them.
I can choose to be weak. To be afraid. To not trust anybody. To be in pain. But do I want the bad things that already happened in the past that are now beyond my control keep hurting me and abusing me?
No. Not if I want my life now, this present moment, to matter to me. It is my life and I cannot let the pains of the past keep hurting me and make me a permanent victim.
I don't want any sympathies, for I have learned the lessons that I needed to learn to be strong.
The past are all beyond my control. My choices,, however are mine and no matter what consequences outside my control hurt me, my choice to be either strong or weak is mine and mine alone.
2007-02-05 13:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by Nocturne_in_G_Major 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
howdy the only man or woman who could carry guilt are the abusers and to that end your parents, you weren't born into this international to be abused or murdered and you may experience proud you survived it, definately no longer accountable. No baby nor grownup merits to stay in worry of others! thoughts come and bypass approximately each crime which you may imagine and it make us understand that human life might nicely be poor and additionally can remind us we are no longer on my own in our suffering too. one ingredient which you may undergo in innovations is that those toddlers who've been no longer able to stay to tell the story for countless motives by no potential left the international invisable simply by fact they nonetheless touched peoples lives removed from the abuser- pals, kin, even strangers and so on. you're no longer invisable the two, your life impacts a lot of others which you wouldnt notice off. i think of you may desire to seek for some counselling on your previous reviews that are affecting your self worth and possibily many different components, this might help you come back to words with the previous and flow on and experience extra appropriate. better of success x
2016-10-01 11:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every day of my life i would get hit tied up get beaten by my mother spank with twigs she would yank my gender when i sleep the would whip me with a belt, when i play the would whip me with a cord of the vacuum, she hammer my head with a Millard hammer,my dad had to tear her off me my head would bleed she tried to kill me and lie to my dad,there would never be a day when she don,t.s slap me for me thinking slow.she told me not to say the truth about her beating me.i was terrified if her, all so there would not be any out side help like counsellor because my father had a stable job they never see if the adopted child is in a safe home or not.after 5 years old they for get you or don,t care. people like me don,t survive we hide behind depression pill our souls in side are die, we only exist, the only thing that make us fine is not being near our abuser,and do sports to keep it out of our mind,if the parents have money to raze the kids with out help they don,t care for the kid,that was adopted.
2007-02-05 13:16:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. In every way possible by every member of my family.
God helped me survive.
My life now is better than I ever thought it would be. I am a much stronger person, I can fight back now.
2007-02-05 13:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by Tigger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I was. Unfortunately, i don´t know you personally and that´s why i don´t feel comfortable sharing my story.
But just posting this big secret here helps, so thanks.
2007-02-05 13:15:43 · answer #6 · answered by No se 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what Rita said
2007-02-05 13:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i m not:)
2007-02-05 12:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋