ok so a friend of mine and my husbands just told us that they are expecting... they know that me and my husband have been trying to get pg and then they rub it all in our face.. they are not even married i know that has nothing to do with it but now she is asking for my help in planning her wedding and all because she is only doing it for the baby not for herself.... she seems mad at me and my husband because we have announced to our friends and some family that we are trying to get pg... i am not happy for them because they have made rude remarks about me and my husband trying to get pg... so should i still put on the i'm happy for you face and suck it up or should i just avoid them.... any answers will be appericated....
2007-02-05 12:44:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, i'm sorry that your friend is making you feel this way. that's just totally uncalled for. maybe you should try to talk to her about it...see what happens. good luck! :)
2007-02-05 12:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to grow up and understand that they are extremely excited about the upcoming baby. They are not at fault for your hubby and yourself not being pregnant yet.
Yes, help her plan the wedding. You will understand the stage she is in when you become pregnant. Its nothing personal towards you, its just that she isnt thinking about your situation at the moment. They are overwhelmed apparently with joy. Dont take that away from her. You will see when you get pg.
So, yes, put on the happy face and suck it up. Dont sink to her level of making rude comments.
Be happy for them, and when you have your little bundle of joy she can be happy for you then.
I wish you all the luck in concieving. Its an absolute wonderful feeling being pregnant.
Good luck hun.
2007-02-05 12:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont imagine you're over reacting. i'd experience an similar way. I continually say this "do not do some thing that you wouldnt pick carried out to you" appears like even although they're sturdy acquaintances they probable had some thing interior the previous. perhaps i'm incorrect. there are particular obstacles that acquaintances (noticeably guy acquaintances) pick to have even as a woman chum has a bf. the in common words man or woman that would set that boundary is your gf. Ask her if she may like on your lady acquaintances to textual content you stuff like that.
2016-11-25 19:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just help with the wedding if you're okay with it. If you feel like it's too much for you right now, maybe you could just tell her your feelings and that you might be busy. As for trying to get pregnant, they have a lot of fertility options out there now. I would try that.
2007-02-05 12:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by Brown-eyed girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy for her. You will have your turn. Being nasty won't do you any good. Help her with the wedding plans. I don't think she is rubbing it in your face either. I think it might be that green eyed monster. Relax, and enjoy the wedding. Like I said, your day will come.
2007-02-05 12:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should tell her how shes making you feel and that shes being very rude if she doesnt change i think you should tell her that you cant help her with the wedding and things if shes going to act that way thats very rude to treat you this way and she should be sorry good luck on getting pg and with your friend
2007-02-05 13:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell them at first that ur happy that they're expecting but the way they're announcing it is just way over the top n that they're really hurting ur feelings. u should tell them how u feel n b honest with them but don't tell them in a upset manner. just tell them in a kind way but at the same time just congratulate them. idk if that's helpful enough but i wish u good luck with ur friends n also in trying 2 have a baby. i hope u get that baby u've always dreamed of having:)
2007-02-05 12:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by emilytobey@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, why would she be mad if you and your husband were trying to get pregnant?And why would she be making rude remarks about you and your husband about trying to get pregnant? If she is, she ISN"T your friend.
2007-02-05 12:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont pretend to be happy for them. if i were you. id keep quiet about my true feelings but not be all like. omgggg im so happy for you guys! just be like. congrats. if they are rude, just brush it off. no use in causing stress.
2007-02-05 12:48:34 · answer #9 · answered by reemo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry-- tell her how you feel!
good luck w/ the baby!
2007-02-05 12:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋