Okay I'm 15 years old and I'm a male. I masterbate a lot, mostly to women. But sometimes I'll be looking, and If know one is watching I'll click a gay porno on the internet, and I find myself "finishing" a lot faster to that than women. But I don't think I'm gay. I really could never see myself being with another male ever. I can't see myself having a relationship at all. I'm actually in love with this girl right now. And I find women attractive, A LOT. I think I'm just kinky and gay sex turns me on? I don't know why, but I really don't think I'm gay/bi, and I don't think I'm in denial. I think it's just something that happens when I masterbate and I'm horny. Is there such thing as being bisexually sexual and romantically hetero?
2007-02-05 12:41:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I honestly think you are rationalizing having some definite homosexual inclinations. I don't think it really matters what other people are calling you, but I think if you "finish faster" to gay sex...that's a pretty big indication that gay sex turns you on. That to me is a pretty big indication that you are gay. It sounds like you feel emotionally closer to women...but sexually closer to men. In other words.....sexually...you sound likely to be Gay.
My best friend came out as Bi-sexual when he was about 18...and said something to me very similar to what you said. He liked women more emotionally...but sexually he was more into guys. A few years later he came out as gay.
I don't care what you are...it;s none of my business....and you can call yourself whatever you want to...but it really sounds to me like you are being very defensive. I think you should maybe really analyze what you are sexually attracted to. I know i'm straight because when I masturbate I think about women.
2007-02-05 12:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never really heard of anyone being bisexually sexual and romantically hetero, although I haven't heard of everything. Like a lot of people like you are sometimes gay curious, and maybe at your age you are curious, and I think as you get older you will try gay sex,because you watch it now and you will want to see how it really is, but you may end up being straight or as you put it romantically hetero. Good luck in what ever you do, and what are the gay pornos you watch, I might have them in my collection.
2007-02-05 22:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by jumpinjackdw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually I find it very strange that you get off easily while watching gay porn yet you do not seem to be sexually attracted to men. Bisexuals are attracted SEXUALLY to men but in your case its is just to get off. Strange indeed. I see it more of a FETISH than being a bisexual. There are straight men who likes anal play but would rather do it with a woman than a man. However give it a few more years and see where it leads you. Some guys find out they are gay or bisexual at a later age, as old as 40. And stop masturbating ALOT! You are getting too horny that you would do anything just to get off. Get busy with sports or something to get your mind out of sex and stop watching porn too much.
2007-02-06 08:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by PAXson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason you finish quicker when you watch gay porn is that it is new to you, taboo to you, it is something you feel you would never really do, so fantasizing is very exciting to you. I don't think you are gay,but who is to say if the right guy came along, at just the right time,you might experiment with him. That still does not make you gay or bi. If you do experiment and you like it but still like girls you may be bi.
2007-02-05 21:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by JUSTIN C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's what i think for you. You may be bi you may not. Focus on your feelings too, b/c being bi is not all related to sex, there are feelings and thoughts involved. Don't worry about labeling yourself, sexuality is a fluid thing. Listen to your heart and experience intamacy all over the board you'll know what's right.
2007-02-05 21:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by I'm here for now 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're fine. You said it yourself, you are just kinky. ;) Some girls like to watch two guys go at it or two girls go at it, but that doesn't mean they would want to participate. We just don't admit it sometimes. It is all nature. I think you are fascinated by it, but that doesn't mean you would do it. But if you did, that wouldn't be a bad thing either.
2007-02-05 21:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its OK you re not bi, anything sexual in any type of form automatically stimulates people, that doesnt mean you would be attracted to a guy in a real world situation , it only means that you re a person that gets stimulated very easily and besides that you're a teenager
2007-02-05 20:49:17 · answer #7 · answered by salena 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very possible to be bisexualand be sexually attracted more to one sex than the other, as wel as more emotionally attracted to the pther sex. It is very possible you are bi.
2007-02-05 23:07:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're around the age where you're discovering your sexuality and you may just be bi-curious. you won't know until you have a gay experience.
2007-02-05 21:07:50 · answer #9 · answered by peejay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u might be bi im not sure by the way u described it but u might be sorry i cant give u a yes or no answer on that but if u catch urself looking at other guys then u might be idk tho sorry
2007-02-05 20:45:26 · answer #10 · answered by I am me and thats all i can be 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋