we have been together for over a year and a half, we have a good sex life but she always keeps her bra on because she has small breats, i tell her that i love her body and she looks fantastic the way she is, she still wont take it off, ladies please help me!!!!
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2007-02-05 11:45:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I use to be shy as well...make her feel comfortable...turn off the lights at first, and tell her you love her the way she is...make her feel super sexy the way she is!!! I eventually got over that shyness stage...don't worry, she will too once she gets use to you...
2007-02-05 11:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push her into it or it will make her go back into her shell more. When you are having sex tell her that she looks amazing and things like that. Tell her that you love smaller breasts too and you actually prefer that. Try to give her loads of confidence and compliment her all the time. That's what I would want to hear anyway! That'd win me around. Maybe when you are having sex you could put your hands there and push her bra up, she may enjoy it so much that she will let you take her bra off.
2007-02-05 11:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a profound interest in her breasts. It used to bother my boyfriend that I never took my bra off during sex too, when he brought it up to me, I had no idea what he was talking about---I was so into being with him that I didn't waste any time taking my bra off! Now when he sees I've still go it on, instead of making it out to be a bad thing, he plays about giving my nipples kisses and rubbing them until I can't take it anymore-off comes the bra!
Good luck-just be positive and creative!
2007-02-05 11:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by DreamAngel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she is selfconcious about her breast size all you can do is reassure her. Though have you considered sometimes sex is much more interesting with a little something left on. At the moment she obviously feels more comfortable. You could maybe suggest sharing a shower which could encourage her to relax a little maybe a bath with lots of bubbles. Remember you dont have to be in bed to have fun
2007-02-05 11:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 05:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time and she will be ok with taking it off, i was like that with my bf not for so long but she just needs a confidence boost thats all keep doing what you are. You seem like a great guy being so patient with that. She just needs to feel good bout herself which im afraid dosen't happen over night........ Good luck and just give her time she will come around.
2007-02-07 09:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about one night just slowly stripping her of each item of clothing bit by bit adding little kisses where the items were.... I love it when my man does that, makes me feel like the sexiest woman in the world even though in reality I'm really not! Helped me come over my body imperfections anyway....
2007-02-05 11:58:09 · answer #7 · answered by Fay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem, i have small boobs and my future hubby loves me the way i am but i am uncomfortable about my body. we've been together 6 years (and he was there when i had our child) and i still wont stand in front of him naked...just know that if she loves you and you love her it shouldn't matter, my fellas used to it now and occasionally when he doesn't say anything about getting naked i will just do it, i think its a pressure thing. just chill it will happen when it happens
2007-02-08 09:51:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more confidance you give her,the more she will relax,theres such a big thing with men and big boobs that she proberbly feels like shes not enough for you,give her loads of compliments,don,t go over the top,tell her she looks great,that what shes wearing suits her,compliment her hair,it won,t happen over night,you need to build trust and confidence and it takes time,they say the best things come to those who wait.
2007-02-05 11:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by karen s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are under huge pressure to conform to social stereotypes .. she obviously fears that you have a level of expectation of her body that she cant live up to ...
tell her that you pity people whos enjoyment of sex is based on what they see .
its true isnt it !!!
Think of times when you have seen her be confident about herself and draw attention to it ...
she may not see herself as confident unless you can draw her attention to times when she has been ..
2007-02-07 09:19:58 · answer #10 · answered by blogmart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋