Also, she knows you're gay. Sex isn't bad (but you don't know different - but know you feel closer to blokes).. but a bit like having a ****(!). She also assures you that she doesn't fancy you... not her type.
What happened in the end? I think this is common (maybe not) for many people in the coming out phase..? Also you are kind of attracted to her.. but not as much as for blokes.
2007-02-05 11:26:06 · 3 answers · asked by Pete 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I had a very serious girlfriend from age 16 to 18 even though I knew I was gay and sleeping with men at the same time.
It was all a big disaster when I fell in love with a guy and then one of my girlfriend's friends saw me and Michael together... it wasn't good! I did love her and felt really bad about the way I treated her. I apologised properly a few years later.
Ultimately though she just wasn't what I was looking for... and yes you're right about the sex thing... it's not bad, but the earth certainly didn't move! And girls can't give head!
2007-02-05 20:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I was married for nearly ten years before admitting to myself and the rest of the world that I was gay.
It was unfair on my wife, but I did and still do care ab out her. I certainly loved her, and the sex was ok. It wasn't what I was looking for though.
Eventually I met another man, feel head over heels in love, divorced my wife and setteld down in my new gay relationship. I am still there and we are very happy together.
At times I feel bad for the hurt caused to my wife, but at least I had the guts to move on.
2007-02-05 19:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by ticklemonster 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I've had relationships with males knowing that I am a lesbian just to cover the fact up. Didn't have sex with them though.
2007-02-06 00:16:29 · answer #3 · answered by Scully 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋