Well, there's this boy jj. And he's liked me 4ever!!! and he asked me out once and i rejected him... he went out wit probably 2 other girls since then and now everyone's coming back up to me telling me oh jj still likes u cause he told everyone and he's gonna ask u back out again... and now i think im kinda liking him, cause he's being really sweet. he even invited me to the movies this weekend.. But i've known him for like 4 or 5 yrs and if i go out with him and we break up it'll be really akward. but i dont wanna hurt his feelings again.. what should i do??!!!!!!!
2007-02-05 11:21:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
heres the thing
if you do like him go for and dont worry at all what will happen if your break up. if not then dont do it becasue that is just mean.
i am currently dating a girl that used to be my one of my best friends. we both dated other people during the course of our friendship and the night that we first went out on a date we were acutaly both supposed to go out with someone else. Her date couldnt make it that night and i was really getting frustrated with mine's lack of maturity and so when she said she wanted to go out with a buch of people and not just the two of us i told her to go and have fun but i wasnt going. I called the other girl up then and asked her what she was doing that night and it turned out great since she now didnt have a date either.
well to make a long story short the dating thing became regualar after that and we have now been dating for more then 10 months. our only regret is that we did not date sooner but the reason we didnt is becasue we were both worried what would happen if we broke up.
moral of the story. if you like the kid dont worry about breaking up with him cuz who says u ever have to.
2007-02-05 11:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by bd189ezy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what you think is best. Even if you two do go out and break up yeah that will be awkward but its better to of tried it than not tried it at least then you would know what it would be like right!
2007-02-05 19:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean kinda like him...either you do or don't and if you feel it may mess up yall friendship if you two were ever to break up then let him know that.. tell him yall friendship is worth so much you would hate to mess it up sweeten it up a bit so that he'll understand with out being upset at you. ...but if you really like him then give it a try...good luck
2007-02-05 19:28:56 · answer #3 · answered by naterie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dun u give both of you a chance? love won't come easily, as long as both of u in love, y dun u think on the positive way? y must u break up with him and hurt him if he is your Mr. RIGHt? maybe your relationship will last longer than u ever know...
2007-02-05 19:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by ~~simply me~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatevers is in your heart. If you really like this guy then go for it because you can be missing out on a opportunity. If you really dont like him, and you know your jsut going out with him out of pitty, then its best if you dont.
2007-02-05 19:31:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go out with him i mean if you like him and if you guys do end up braking up tell him you still wanna be friends and you dont want anything to change...i no sounds easire then it is but hey give it a try...good luck
2007-02-05 19:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by tootsiewootsie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it, go out with him. if you never try you'll never know. if it doesn't work out and you break up, tell him you still want to be friends with him. dont let it get akward
2007-02-05 19:42:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL......... JK IF U REALLY LIKE HIM U SHOULD U KNOW?
N I DOUBT DAT IT WILL BE AKWARD UNLESS U OR HE DOSE SOMTEN WRONG. BUT IT DOSENT MATTER WAT I SAY CAUSE U SHOLD FOLLOW UR GUT N IF HE MAKES U FEEL SPECIAL OR YOUR REALLY HAPPY U NO U MADE THE RITE CHOICE IT ALL MATTERS HOW U FEEL U AND WAT U THINK. U SHOULD TAKE A CHANCE SOME HOW SOME WAY YOULL FIND A WAY TO MAKE DIS HAPPEN AND IT NOT BE AKWARD.
2007-02-05 19:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by destiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you start to like him its not a bad thing to go on a date with him and see if you truly like him and would want to be with him. if yall would break up its only your and his fault that it would be awkward. just follow your heart and dont worry about tomorrrow.[if you know what i mean]
2007-02-05 19:28:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the movies with him and see if u feel comfortable or not.
if u don't then tell him no easily but if u do say yes and go outt with him.
2007-02-05 19:31:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋