2007-02-05 11:11:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is no such thing as "perfect."
Sex is something that can be learned. Sex can be improved upon. Does he know that he isn't pleasing you in bed? You need to TALK TO HIM.
If you are going to use the sex excuse NOT to marry him, you aren't ready for marriage.
2007-02-05 11:13:04 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex isn't the main part of the marriage. If sex is that important to you, you shouldn't marry this guy. If sex isn't that important that marry the guy. It's more important that you LIKE, RESPECT, and CARE for each other. If you hold out marriage for the PERFECT sex partner, than you will end up very lonely.
2007-02-05 11:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just to let you in on a little secret, nothing in marriage is perfect, it is full of highs and lows and the sex can be improved if you work on teaching him.
Marriage is a life long commitment to the other person in the worst of times as well as great times. You are committed even when you don't feel "in love" but the good news is you get to fall in love over and over in marriage.
2007-02-05 11:16:59 · answer #3 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If sex is in any way important to you, then absolutely not. You're asking for trouble. If it's not that important, and you love him, then go for it.
The fact that you're even asking the question means it matters, so I would vote no. I know of a young girl who is divorcing her husband. She ended up cheating on him because having sex with him made her "want to puke". Find someone you're compatible with in every way and marry them!
2007-02-05 11:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by lostinne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is something that can always be improved upon. Like watching videos, reading books, educational shows on tv etc... Wouls you rather have only sex to work on or a partner who had many flaws like being an alcoholic, drug abuser, cheater,...
2007-02-05 13:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, then marry him. Unless the size is an issue for you, that is something that can't be changed. Otherwise, if he just needs a few pointer in some areas, that's easy to handle!
2007-02-05 11:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by lady_blu_iz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If sex isn't a very important part of the relationship to you then I don't see why not. If it is then you might want to reevaluate your decision because it can cause problems in the relationship later.
2007-02-05 13:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by simply_ch0c0late 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him and your heart tells you to do so.. than yea marry him. it's not all about the sex...sex isnt everything..love,trust,friendship comes first.....than worry about the sex. maybe later on it'll get better and than you might end up having the most exciting sex ever. so just wait and see. that's how i see it. just follow your heart and good luck!!!
2007-02-05 11:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by rreever_mzcoronax 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are things that you can do to make sex better if you try. don't let go of a good man. I mean it's better to have a good man that you can teach what you like then to have a man that's great in bed but ain't worth ****.
2007-02-05 11:16:42 · answer #9 · answered by mrslola-mae-1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well relationship isn't just about sex it's more about if u love each other n want to b together 4 the rest of your life
2007-02-05 11:15:57 · answer #10 · answered by gkret@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋