I'm 12 and pregnant. My boyfriend is 22 and he slept with my best friend Tamika. I don't know what to do because he is the father of my unborn child.
Help?
2007-02-05 10:57:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
My parents know
i'm 5 months
my parents LOVE him and they already know his age, they would take his side no matter what
even if he did cheat
they say its my fault
2007-02-05 11:04:43 · update #1
So in one question you were 16, and 2 weeks ago you weren't sure if you were pregnant or not.
That's strange.
In two weeks you became 4.5 months more pregnant and 4 years older.
Wish I could do that....
2007-02-05 12:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by bpbjess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats great your parents take the side of a child molester and if your best friend is the same age as you then thats what they call a repeat sex offender.
What your parents should be doing is contacting the police and having him charged for molesting you and your friend and seeing as your parents know his age and allowed him to be with you they can also be arrested and DCF can terminate there parental rights.
I really think you need to contact social services and tell them what's going on, this man needs to be arrested, he has already molested you and your friend and if he has done that then god knows how many other kids there are which is exactly what you are.
I can not even believe your parents are allowing you to stay pregnant, at the age of 12 your body is nowhere near ready to carry a baby, bad things can happen because of this such as a miscarriage , the baby being born with a deformity or mental problem or you dying.
I really urge you to contact social services and get to a doctor and see him or her as much as possible because being 12 and pregnant is VERY dangerous.
For those saying what this guy did is Statutory Rape you are WRONG.. If anyone over 17 sleeps with someone 15 or younger it is child molesting. Statutory Rape is when someone over 17 sleeps with a 16 or 17 year old and Statutory Rape carries a lesser prison sentence then child molesting does.
2007-02-05 12:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by Diamonds_Glow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if this is true, you need to talk to someone about an abortion, or adoption. You should be out riding your bike with your girlfriends and going to the mall-not having sex. whats the matter with you. Do you think your parents feel like raising another kid! Because your life is over, if you think you can play house at everyones expense, especially a baby. Oh, and your idiot boyfriend could be arrested and charged with Statutory Rape! And if he cheated on you, its because he's 22, and because he's a jerk! And SHE IS NOT YOUR FRIEND!!
2007-02-05 11:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by micciinfl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? your only 12 and your pregnant. wow. Okay. You shouldn't be messing with a 22 yr old anyways.. I hate to sound so mean but, did you think he would stay around? my brother is 22 yrs old and got an 18 yr old pregnant and he didn't stick around for that. I'm sorry about your situation. Just drop him. You can raise a child alone. Plenty of women do it every day. Good luck to you.
2007-02-05 11:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by tristan's mommie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Somehow I think you are putting us on. Your parents should be in an institution for allowing you to fool around with a 22 year old, and you being pregnant and talking about him cheating with your best friend. That makes her round about your age too. This guy is a louse, and sorry to say, so are your parents.
2007-02-05 11:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
I would have to say, you really need to not worry about the father. He is going to do whatever he chooses because you have no control over him anyway...
I think your biggest concern should be being a good mom and finding a way to remain celebate until you are married, just so you don't end up in this situation again....
Do you have any adult support to help you through these problems?!
2007-02-05 11:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by LIFECOACH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you luck, as you've chosen a difficult path. Won't preach, though, as I'm not your mommy. Dump the jerk. If he cheated once, he'll do it again. Also, has he not heard of statutory rape? He's an adult, and sorry, but you're not. He could get arrested for having impregnated a minor.
Good luck, and God bless. Make sure you see a doctor during your pregnancy. You're young and therefore at a higher risk for complications.
2007-02-05 11:04:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im really sorry but you shouldint of been messin around with him. but you seem to already know that. and your 12 years old! hun your not ready to have a child! yuou cant take care of yourself so your not ready to take care of another life! i say you addopt him/her out and press charges against the guy STATATORY RAPE is what they call it and while your at it tell the police that your parents knew and your wont have to deal with them if you want i hope you learn something from all this
2007-02-05 11:51:21 · answer #8 · answered by Dimond eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, report him to the police ASAP... do your parent's know you're pregnant? if they don't tell them right away...they may be upset at first, but they'll still love you...i can guarentee it. if they do know, tell them about your so-called boyfriend, and his age. no one your age should be given the responcibility of a baby...not even a 17 year old can handel it...
2007-02-05 11:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by xXLadyBladeXx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first question is why the hell isn't he in jail. The last time I checked that was called statutory rape. My suggestion is to call the police on his behind and let him roast in jail.
2007-02-05 11:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by boinga28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋