Now my ex and I haven't been together for awhile, but tried the whole friendship thing....well, with benefits. I know I shouldn't but now my ex has found someone steady and has told me we can ONLY remain friends, nothing more. Yet last month when we hung out, one thing led to another, and my ex was with the new gf already. Recently we stopped talking, but this has happened before...where we stop talking then the ex comes crying and saying I miss you etc...if they just want to remain friends, why can't they just make up their minds and just leave it at that!?!?! Why the mind games??? One day it's "I love and miss you", other days it's "ok, I can't talk now, I'm busy, etc"....my ex knows how much I care and love em...but my mind and heart continues to be played with...it's hard to let go, but I know I should...right? I was completely faithful,loyal and loving...but my ex cheated...yet, I care deep down. Do they ever regret leaving you...once you've left for good???
2007-02-05 10:52:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They will only f*ck with your head if you let them!!!
2007-02-05 10:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by feel/the/need/to/fly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ex's always mess with your head if you let them. Friends with benefits NEVER works. I know that you love him and care about him, but for your own sanity you just need to move on. Don't fall for the "I miss you's and I love you's" they are only ways to get back in your head. CUT HIM LOOSE!!! It is for your own good. I know I have been there. And it is not easy!!
2007-02-05 19:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by brwnsuga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, everyone goes through this. Calm down and relax. Guys will continue to go back to you, as long as you let them! If you're tired of being "played with", then stand up for yourself. Do not settle for less! By the way, being someones side line ho* is not cute.
2007-02-05 19:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by Candie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
srry 2 say,
its a trick. They want you 2 feel srry so that u will take them bac. AND don't do it cuz u'll end up srry in the long run.
2007-02-05 19:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by onewhowantzhimbac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz they're assholes!
which finally brought me...to removing my ex from my MSN
the bastard!!!
thnx
:)
2007-02-05 18:57:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋