Have you ever intimately desired someone (not husband/wife) so much you would do almost anything to get them?

Answer 1

Yes, and getting it almost always ends up with chaos. People get hurt and the person you lust after is just your way of trying to escape whatever it is you are not dealing with in your current relationship. Trust me, you will feel nothing but regret if you develop relations with this other person, and then you will want to kick yourself in the rearend for the rest of your life.

Answer 2

I did actually feel tempted to have an affair with a co-worker who would have done this with me if I had given him the slightest bit of encouragement. Knowing that my marriage was rocky and I was unhappy, this was an enticing temptation, because he treated me so kindly and we got along great. I didn't feel my husband (now my ex) was doing that. Because I am a Christian and knew in my heart that it was wrong to feel this way, I prayed about it. I thankfully resisted the temptation, and I am glad I did. It would have been a bad thing to do to my husband (and consequently to my children, for cheating on their father), as well as a bad thing to do with a co-worker. It also would have disgraced me as a Christian and would have made a mockery out of the name of Jesus. I'm glad I resisted. I have since divorced my husband (he was abusive), and moved back to my home state and started a new life with my kids. I am happily engaged, and I know in my heart that I will never, ever cheat on my fiance. If the temptation comes up again, I feel confident that God will see me through so that I can withstand that temptation.

Answer 3

OK there is a fine line between fantasizing and stocking and you need to calm down you are married for heavens sakes grow up its life come on now
there is also a fine line between normal and crazy and you are flirting with it hun go back to your wife and work things out with her figure out why you married her

Answer 4

i thought so but then life told me i'm an idiot