im lesbian but i could be considered bi... but i like this girl in my school... shes a little older than me but i think she might like me too and might be bi.... cuz i know a guy in her grade and he told me there are a bunch of girls in his grade that are bi (9th grade) and this girl i like is in his grade and today i was sitting down all alone and she was hanging out with sum of her friends then she walked over and sat down next to me (i was sitting down with my hands folded on my lap like i was cold) and she was like hey laura! and i was like hey! then after about a min. she was like im gonna leave u in ur lonlieness(sp) now ok? and when she was saying that she put her hand on my hands that were folded up and like slid her hand down my leg to the bench (im not sure how else to explain that sorry) then she got up and hung out with her other friends again... last week she tried to get me alone with her but im not sure if it was cuz she liked me or what... we talk alot too...
2007-02-05 10:41:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
my question is "is there any chance she likes me and/or is bi?"
2007-02-05 10:41:49 · update #1
what i meant by "trying to get me alone with her" is that she asked me if i wanted to go down to the locker rooms with her real quick but she had other friends there too but she didnt ask any1 else that was there she only asked me and no one else would have been in the locker rooms at that time so do u think that might be because she likes me or what?
2007-02-05 10:43:21 · update #2
i dont want to ask her cuz were friends and im afraid that if shes not that she might be homophobic and wouldnt want to be my friend anymore and i dont want to ruin my friendship so i want to be almost sure that shes bi b4 i ask her cuz i really dont want to ruin our friendship
2007-02-05 10:49:55 · update #3
I think that she may like you yes. I had my first experience when I was about 13-14 I'm (25 now and in a loving lesbian relationship) so I am not going to tell you your too young...although, I will caution about getting involved with someone at school because if it doesn't work EVERYONE WILL know! Even though you may be mature enough to handle a relationship she may not be and you should really think about if you can deal with that (especially if she is BI) When your young you feel things and hormones are crazy so the only advice I can really give you is just tread lightly at first.....try not to get too involved too fast and save some of yourself back for you, if not then you will have a hard time recovering IF she decides she doesn't want to be with girls anymore. Other than that I say go for it, be yourself! That is what youth is for...to find out who you will be when you get older!
2007-02-05 10:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by pirategirls16 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She asked if you wanted to go some place private where people take their clothes off? I think she just might be interested.
2007-02-06 04:51:52 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm i dont know anything about bi and gays and lesbians but sure, i guess it sounds like she may be a little interested, but maybe shes just being a friend
2007-02-05 18:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i think that she likes you,and is testing you.Go with her and see what happens next.she is teasing you
2007-02-05 18:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by hdf69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEA IM PRETTY SURE SHE MIGHT LIKE U! Y DONT U JUST ASKE HER I MEAN WHY WAIT?
2007-02-05 18:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by countryismyrock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋