I know the feeling cause i found out my wife was cheating, its been like 3 years already, but i cant explain it words. just wondering other peoples feeling. when they went through it or that are going through it right now. There is not wrong answer. thank you
2007-02-05 10:41:19 · 20 answers · asked by rebornlife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For me it was like my entire world just blew up in my face. i felt like i had lost my best friend, the one person who would love me forever, the person whom i had put all my trust in, was now gone. my heart broke in so many pieces that i thought it would never be able to be put back together. and to this day there are pieces missing, wondering how long that will last and if it will last forever. having a hard time trusting anyone anymore.
2007-02-05 11:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by greeneyed_angel362002 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My highschool sweetheart of 15 years had an affair and it ended for us in divorce. Its only been about 3 months. I had to go to the ER for emotional shock, almost commited suicide about two times, Then went into a deep depression and now on my way to a partial emotional recovery. I think when death comes it will be cake compared to what I went through. The sad part is she didn't understand why I was so bent out of shape. One day what goes around will come around and she will know what it feels like. But for me she is a lowlife cheat and I'm moooovin on!!
2007-02-05 12:12:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I only had a dream that my wife was cheating with her old boyfriend. This was enough to set me off and question the whole marriage concept. I cannot even imagine how you must feel.
But you do deserve some justice. You should go find a really smokin hot lady and bring her home and do her right in front of the wife. She can just sit there and watch and be miserable because it was all her fault that you are bangin ths hottie broad.
2007-02-05 10:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
it't like having ur heart ripped out everyday of ur life. that's the only way i can explain it it's been almost 2 years since my hubby cheated on me lil more than a yr since i found out. he did it cuz he believed rumors instead of me. ppl at work where saying i cheated on him and he believed it so he went out and had an affair we where only married 6 months at the time i still have a hard time dealing with it til this day hit me up if u needa talk to sum1 that knows the same feeling latinachicka2000@yahoo.com
2007-02-05 10:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by ~::JAEL::~ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I went into clinical shock.
I couldn't breath and I was looking at him as he was telling me that he had a confession to make and as he told me it was like the glass in front of my vision cracked and shards came down and I was very cold. It was the worst possible feeling, but it only came once, the next time he cheated I found I didn't care anymore about him, the marriage or who he was boinking.
2007-02-05 11:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by justa 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For me it was anger obviously, but it went right to kids, money and how fast I could get her out of my house. It's like 6 years later for me, and I don't miss her a bit, never have. I'm currently remarried to a woman who deserves my trust. I got the kids and have since made up any money I ever lost along the way. The best revenge is living well, but I don't even care enough about that trash to want revenge; shes been doing it for me.
2007-02-05 10:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Never been in a situation like that but I know how he looked like when I described to him a wrong place that we use to go to when we're dating and it completely changed his face when he heard about it because I told him that I've been there already and he thought I was talking about the new motel that had the same name which we both never been to. He probably thought I was cheating. At least I know how he would look like if ever that happens. He looked so surprised about it...I
2007-02-05 11:13:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
My abdomen actually sense to the floor and so did I. I balled for a lengthy time period and then when I pronounced him (i found the info even as he wasn't living house) I punched him contained in the face devoid of even telling him I knew something.
2016-11-02 10:20:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a horrible and shocking feeling when you find out your spouse that you share so much with would betray you. I felt like someone took a knife and stabbed me right in the middle of the heart and then kept turning the knife. My heart broke that day and it really did something to me.
2007-02-05 10:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by Tgirl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It hurts like hell. I caught my bf cheating on me when I was 8 months pregnant. You feel empty. Believe me that feeling does go away. We have been together for 5 years now and its going pretty good. Trust your gut. You will get through it with or without her. Good luck
2007-02-05 10:55:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋