If you,ve ever cheated on your spouse, do you regret it now?

Question

If you've always been faithful, congratulations, but we don't need to see your answer. Thanks.

Oops, sorry about the typo, "you,ve" should be "you've".

Answer 1

First husband, yes I did. Wasn't worth the cost. I lost so much. Not only that, but my faith in myself, and my self value went down the tubes.
Second husband, I had many opportunities, but haven't....I learned my golden lesson, but he did it to me.
See? Karma. What goes around comes around...and I gotta tell you, it hurts really bad when you've been betrayed.
I regret I did it. Yes.

Answer 2

I'm married to my second husband and have never cheated on him and the thought has never crossed my mind. I have it to good in our marriage to mess that up. I did cheat on my first husband and I may have regretted it while in the act but afterwards no I didnt regret it. I found out on our wedding day/night/ that he cheated on me while I was 6 months preg. He didnt tell me he cheated.. the girl he cheated with told me at my wedding reception. I didnt get mad or jelous.. and it wasnt until we were married 2 years that I cheated, and it was not out of revenge either.. I cheated bc I wasnt getting the attention and affection that I was suppose to be getting at home from my husband and telling him that did no good, he didnt listen to me, or try to give me what i needed or wanted, so i cheated... My husband now, I would never even think about cheating on. I have a great marriage, with 100% trust and communication. We talk, we dont fight.. in 3 years we have been together we have never had one fight or argument.. a disagreement yes we have had, but we always work it out and talk to each other. Cheating is now a thing of my past and as long as im married to my husband now, I could and would never cheat on him..

Answer 3

In high school of course..I think every kid does...

I did cheat on a long term ex boyfriend and I guess you will be surprised but no I did not and do not regret it. I planned it because he cheated on me.

Answer 4

I did in my 2nd marriage. When we married she knew i was a career military person. Even when i had a shore duty station, she refused to join me there and stayed in her little hick town in utah. Always demanding that i get out of the service and come to that little town to live with her.

I wasn't going to do that until i retired. When i did go home to visit on leave all she did is whine and complain and pout because i wouldn't get out of the military. We didn't even have sex the last two years of that marriage and finally i said to hell with it and filed for divorce. Before she got the papers i was out having sex with other women. I'm not sorry i divorced her, but the decision to divorce was made before i cheated.

I made it to the end of my military career after serving 34 years. I've never regretted having divorced or cheated on that woman.

Answer 5

Yes i did alot of this in my first marriage and it was not right at all.... Yes i sure regret it now and wish it never would have happened. This marriage now i am 100% faithful and dont cheat... I have learned my lesson in life.

Answer 6

I cheated on my first husband. Yes - I regretted it. I did it because I wanted out but was too chicken to leave. It is better to just get out of the relationship - better to everyone.

Answer 7

i never thought i would cheat on my bf, he treats me like a queen, and i couldn't ask for anything better, but this guy at work really had something that i was interested in...for the time being that was. i ended up kissing him one night, he came into kiss me, and i didn't stop him. it was like i had this little crush on him or something. after i did it, i immediately felt so guilty, and like i wanted to crawl in a hole and die for what i had did. i couldn't believe that i did that, and wanted to take it back so bad. i never did tell my bf about it. i knew it would never happen again, and i didn't want to break his heart for nothing. it still eats away at me everyday, but i really want to keep our relationship going, and i know that if i tell him he will leave, or never think the same of me again.
i don't really know what to do about it. if i tell him it will ruin everything.

Answer 8

I think the question should be, "Do I regret trusting, loving, and being honest in our marriage for years? For BETTER or WORST, for RICHER OR POORER, UNTIL DEATH DO US PART"? Cheating is to easy, try living up to your vows.

Answer 9

i got cheated on. i regret that i trusted him. i knew it was going to happen with this particular person and it did, and i should have listened to myself. of course, he would turn it all around so it's my fault. no, he doesn't regret it. yet. but he will.

Answer 10

never cheated, so i have no regrets