Ok yeah well I'm almost 13, and one of my best friends Chris has a thing for me and I do too. But he already has a girlfriend and her name is Sam. But yesterday Chris and I were discussing about having sex and have a child when we get older (when I'm 18 and he's 21). He lives in Ohio and I live in California. And he's been telling me when he's older he'll be traveling to Caliofnia to see me. Oh yeah and he's 15. What are your thoughts or reactions and do you think think will work?
2007-02-05 10:13:03 · 15 answers · asked by ~○~Linkin_Park_Lover~○~ 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
this is normal but before the year is over you will have a new boy on your mind . the boy i liked at 13 i hated at 14
2007-02-05 11:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by GINA D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is going on in your life that you a 12 year old is talking with a 15 year old boy about having sex and kids together? What is your home like? Are your parents broken up? Do you feel unloved? This doesnt sound like normal behavior and I think you need to talk to someone about this b4 you make a mistake. Have you met this guy or is he someone you found on the internet? You say he is your best friend so I hope that means you have met him and have been around him alot.
Im sorry but if I was your parent I would not even let you on the internet at 12 years old without someone being there or making sure you have limited access
This is dangerous and I do not care if you know him. You are 12 and I think a 15 year old shouldnt be thinking about you in that way
WHy are you planning adult things you are a child! You are not mature for your age so lets not even go there and this is something you should not even be thinking about. Please stop now and talk with your mom or whoever. This is not good for you
2007-02-05 18:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, at your ages you are too young to be talking about having sex, much less having a child together. You are still maturing and aren't ready for that. Besides be a stand up person, he is dating someone else right now. You shouldn't be having such a conversation with him anyway. Take it from someone who is older choose your sexual partners based on being in love with each other. Not hormones. At age 15 (the guy), and 13 (you) will change so much in the years to come. This is not the time to
discuss this. At 15 boys are all hormones, and aren't mature enough to make such important decisions. Wait until your about 25 or older to consider such a life long commitment.
2007-02-05 18:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by Suel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I do not suggest getting pregnant before you are finacially stable... second a 13 year old body is not made to handle a pregnancy without complications... 3rd you really need to chill...
I met this guy when I was 13, I lived in cali then too... He lived in AZ and he was 2 years older also... he eventually moved to cali to be with me and It was happily ever after untill he found some one else... I was just his FK buddy, and it upset me that he used me so.... I was close to being pregnant with him many times... condom breaks what not... he was the absolute sweetest guy untill he found the other love of his life... (poor sap is now stuck running from chick to chick) I would have taken care of him, but he didnt know what was really worth anything in life... now I am sombody elses wife.
Stand back and look at your situation... then see what you really feel you should do... you have many years ahead of you... the next 10 will be the most important.
Good luck
2007-02-05 18:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by Holly M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest, he sounds like an internet predator. Any normal 15 year old boy would NOT be talking about having a baby. I dont remember any 15 year old boys ever even wanting to talk about having a baby. I remember a few that would shudder at the idea of it when the topic came up, but NONE that would be talking about having them that early. I would be careful. and No I dont think it would work. Sorry sweetie, just being honest. Best wishes.
2007-02-05 18:24:33 · answer #5 · answered by Beth, Jon, And Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that emotions can run high during the teenage years - but honestly....a long distance relationship with the two of you so young will probably not turn out how you expect it to. It's nice to daydream about the future and to have feelings for someone - but reality is that things change so much - it's not fair for you to commit yourselves to something so permanent at such a young age. If you make it congrats, but I would encourage you to keep your options open.
2007-02-05 18:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by carpediemamt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think you're young at heart and planning for an realistic future. Try to focus on things that are in the present, like family, friends and school. Also, if he has a girlfriend and he's talking to you about having his baby and so on, think what he's telling other girls. Don't waste your time even if he is "Hot Stuff".
2007-02-05 18:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by R. Eric L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk is cheap :-)
Try waiting until you're 18 and he's 21 and see if you still feel the same way.
At 13 I just got my first bf and now I'm 27 with my first child. (not with my 13 yr old bf)
2007-02-05 18:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anesia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, teenagers change their minds often. The distance is a problem because even normal relationships are hard to maintain because of distance, no matter what your age. The love has to already be there from the start. Doesn't look good. he already has a girlfriend like you said.
2007-02-05 18:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 12 years old, and talking about babies and a future with a 15 year old?????????? are you insane? don't have sex for a long time. where are your parents?! thank god he lives in another state! no, it will never work out. come to think of it, if you are already thinking of sex, you'll be pregnant before you turn 18 anyway.
2007-02-05 18:53:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋