Ok yeah well I'm almost 13, and one of my best friends Chris has a thing for me and I do too. But he already has a girlfriend and her name is Sam. But yesterday Chris and I were discussing about having sex and have a child when we get older (when I'm 18 and he's 21). He lives in Ohio and I live in California. And he's been telling me when he's older he'll be traveling to Caliofnia to see me. Oh yeah and he's 15. What are your thoughts or reactions and do you think think will work?
2007-02-05 10:11:19 · 17 answers · asked by ~○~Linkin_Park_Lover~○~ 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I think that you shouldn't be making silly, monumental life plans at such an early age. Life your life, don't grow up too quickly.
2007-02-05 10:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by McLovin 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
STOP thinkin about sex and children.Someon your age shouldnt be thinkin about that kind of thing.Sex isnt what its cracked up to be and children are a job when you are young.I had sex at 16 and I wish I had waited.I had my first child shortly after my 18th birthday and that was no fun.Enjoy your life.Wait for those adult things.When you get married,then have sex.A man that marries a virgin,if he is a virgin will appreciate that.And there are so many diseases that you never know what you will catch.
Be careful,Be safe and WAIT.Good Luck.
2007-02-05 18:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by migamw 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honestly you need to find a boy who is 13 or 14 not older, he needs to NOT hav a girlfriend already. and life does not always work out the way you plan. you mite not want a child when you turn 18. don't you wanna go to college when youre 18? anyway i don't trust this dude
2007-02-05 18:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
im thinking....slow down and live your life! there is no need to rush into serious relationships and make serious plans at such a young age. experience life first, go to school, go to college, start your career, then make those types of decisions. don't have a kid at 18, its not a smart move. youll more than likely regret it- maybe not the child, but probably having a child when your still a child yourself.
2007-02-05 18:16:34 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany T 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Look for some guys around your area instead. I know what your talking about because I met my girlfriend online when I was 16 and she was 14. We talked about the same crap you did and I lived in California and she lived in Pennsylvania. Now we are living together so you never know.
2007-02-05 19:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He has a girlfriend. Have respect for yourself and move on. Believe me when you're 15 you'll be struggling to remember his name.
Besides, if he's an adult pedophile he could be using the girlfriend story to see how desperate you are.
2007-02-05 18:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by CA DIVA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself, you'll regret it. You won't be financially stable. You're only 12!!! Do you really think you can hadle waking up in the early morning every hour to feed a screaming baby? I mean I'm 24 and am still a virgin, and i haven't regretted it.
2007-02-05 18:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Mayk Up♥ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to not discuss having sex with boys you meet on the internet.
2007-02-05 18:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is OK for y'all to like each other but you will probley find someone else before you are 18
2007-02-05 18:15:07 · answer #9 · answered by hot rod 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have your whole life ahead of you! Don't settle down until you are absoutely positive that it is the right choice and that he truly loves you. Date around a little =)
2007-02-05 18:17:15 · answer #10 · answered by Kameo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋