Did you get engaged or married for financial reasons men and women to get more income in your house?
Did you women get married to get out of a controlling parental household to get freedom?
Just doing a survey because at work I overheard a few ladies saying that they only married there male mates for financial comfort and to get out of there moms house. Then I asked a male co-worker would he do that and he said yes he'd get married for love but having someone to help with the bills would be awesome. I guess that is how it is in relationships I guess love is there but finance is greater. Just wondering I have hindu girl at work getting married to get away from her overbearing parents. So do ppl really do that ?
2007-02-05 09:34:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Married for love
and I am a female
and Yes people get married for the wrong reasons alot that is why we have such a big divorce rate in the US
2007-02-05 09:49:34 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Sparkling♥Jules♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Imagine living with someone 24/7, just because it was easier to pay the bills. NO, i could never do that, it would send you balmy and your whole life would be a lie.
Marrying to get away from parents is stupid 2, if they're overbearing she needs to realise how to stand up to them, it could be hard but how are they going to stop her from moving out with a friend?
Sounds cliche, but love is the only reason!
2007-02-05 09:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok...well...this is a new one on me.
No - I would not get engaged or married for financial reasons. What happens when the other person loses their job - or gets hurt or whatever?
No - you marry for love. You live for love. You hope for love and you cherish love. All the rest is just stupid. Sorry.
There are no guarantees in life - if you marry for money or to get out of your parents' house - chances are, you are trading one bad situation for another.
2007-02-05 09:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by Paula S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think marrying exclusively for love is foolhardy. Love changes, evolves, fades, etc. Having said that, though, marrying strictly for financial reasons or to escape oppressive parents will end in a quick divorce. Not to mention the deception involved, if it is not a two way street and everyone is honest about their intentions.
2007-02-05 09:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by Super Ruper 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We admitted to falling in love 2 days after our first night mutually. we are the two in our early 30's so all of us be attentive to nicely what's on the industry and what we choose, and for the two one people, shall we no longer have invented a extra appropriate significant different. we would the two desperate what we've been searching for, and it appears that evidently we are that and a lot extra for the different. I even have by no potential had this point of honesty and openness with yet somebody else. He needed to get couples counseling after in basic terms relationship for some weeks, in the previous something went incorrect, so as that shall we learn the superb thank you to have a healthful courting and supply US the superb shot conceivable. How stunning is that? HIS concept. he's SO FREAKING wonderful. In a lot of techniques. this is how I knew, and it took us 2 days to admit it to a minimum of one yet another that we felt that way.... and because then it has in basic terms gotten extra appropriate.
2016-10-01 11:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many different reasons that people get married. I feel sorry for those that marry for anything other than love - they are missing out on one of life's great adventures.
We lived together for nearly 10 years before we married. We got married because my wife wanted to feel a permanence in our relationship and I married her because I love her and wanted her to be happy.
Also we both fancied a damn good party with our friends.
2007-02-05 09:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by the_lipsiot 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm no not unless your stupid and want to be unhappy. Your escaping something to be in a worse place??Its called being independent and living out on your own or with a roomate and studying hard to get a descent job to be not dependent of any man...although some ppl think that, thats just sad...its a great joy to see taht all you have achieved its because of all the effort YOU made not because you used others selfishly to get there.
2007-02-05 09:41:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO i let my girlfriend move in with me for financial reasons, to help with rent. I married her so she would quit nagging me about getting married.
2007-02-05 09:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
nope. we are both poor! just kidding. got married for love.
2007-02-05 09:38:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-02-05 09:37:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋