Cos i found this guy in my class so so so so hot, not in a wrong way but just wondering if i could be gay
2007-02-05 09:29:59 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Short answer: yes.
Long answer: you're gay dude - get outta the closet ...
2007-02-05 09:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by zappafan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would think that if you believe another man is good looking, and that you maybe think you could emulate what he has, that there's nothing about it and you're not Gay. If you found him sexually attractive then you may be curious, but that too does not make you gay, it makes you curious. If you later decide that you are only attracted to men the of course you would be Gay, and there is really nothing wrong with that either.
Don't force yourself in any direction, you'll only screw up your mind. Just let you be you and be honest with yourself.
I'm not gay and I find some men to be very sexy (I wish I was like them). It's a normal thing.
2007-02-05 09:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by kb6jra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with thinking another guy is hot. Before you run off and declare yourself gay, would you be intimate with this guy. If so, would you be intimate with a woman? If the answer is yes to both, then you are not gay, nor straight, but bi, a perfectly ok sexuality. If you are predominately to exclusively men, then yes, you are gay. If you are predominately or exclusively women, then you are straight. Bear in mind, EVERYBODY has a little bit of bisexuality in them. Yes, even though i am a gay man, it is possible for me to find a woman attractive. I haven't so far, but its possible.
2007-02-05 09:36:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be just dont drop the hand on that guy because he probably is not Gay. I often found other guys attractive or should I say Handsome and i wish i had their looks but Im not gay. For example I found Elvis Presley attractive and George Clooney but I didnt fancy them..You are not advised to tell him or others about how you see them especially if you are not gay because they may still perceive you to be..
2007-02-05 09:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends largely on what you are thinking when they do it. I used to look at a guy, and wonder HOW he got SUCH a BEAUTIFUL WIFE, when he was so ugly. Like Donald Trump! He's the UGLIEST rich dude I've EVER seen, and he married a REAL LADY!!
Don't go gay man. Trust me. It's not what you want. Urges pass. The things that are strong are morals, and values. Put another way. The anus is not a sex organ, even for a woman. Women have trouble with it. It causes permanent damage to the organ. Causes bleeding. it's nasty. The wrong kind of nasty.
I hope you just seek Jesus on such matters. It really does make decision making SO much easier!
2007-02-05 09:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by thewordofgodisjesus 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's only wrong if you think being gay is wrong. It's also not a sign of being gay if you think a guy is hot. Only if you are attracted to him, but it's a different thing to notice that someone is hot. I see a lot of females that I think are hot, but I'm not attracted to them. (Sometimes I'm jealous though).
2007-02-05 09:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is nothing wrong with that. And anybody who makes a comment that it's wrong are judgmental freaks playing God.
The offence can only be taken from the other guy who may feel your attraction is unwelcome. Whether it's a he or she, if an attention is unwanted, it can be seen as offensive.
If you have gay tendencies or bi-sexual tendencies, dont' let anyone telll YOU that you are wrong. Only be truthful to yourself.
2007-02-05 09:34:41 · answer #7 · answered by Nocturne_in_G_Major 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First question says you think he's an attractive guy.
Nothing wrong with that, one doesn't have to be gay or lesbian to appreciate how someone of the same gender looks.
But then you tell us all that you think he's really hot.
Maybe you're gay afterall.
Maybe it's just a phase.
2007-02-05 09:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by Bob L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference between thinking someone is attractive and being attracted to them. Women are given much more freedom in this area. We can say a girl is pretty and no one thinks anything of it. But if a guy were to say another man were handsome...well look out...right away people start questioning his sexual orientation. I think there are those people, both male and female, that are so good looking, there is no denying it.
2007-02-05 09:35:12 · answer #9 · answered by shirewyn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with being attracted to people of the same sex - its society that tells you what you should and should'nt be feeling. You could possibly be gay. The main issue is how you feel about yourself. Maybe you need to talk to a professional counsellor about this? good luck..
2007-02-05 09:33:15 · answer #10 · answered by Frankie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with admiring someone elses looks. But I feel that there's more to it than that with you. When you said he was so so so so hot, that brings up some other issues you may want to look at.
It doesn't matter if you are straight, gay, or bi, thats just a sexual orientation and has nothing to do with who you are.
2007-02-05 09:40:43 · answer #11 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋