im lesbian and i like this girl who is a little older than me and i think she might be bi... and i think she might like me too... today when we were waiting for our bus at school (were on the same bus) i was sitting on a bench all alone and she came over and sat down next to me and i heard from a friend that alot of girls in 9th grade r bi and i asked her what grade she was in and she said 9th i didnt ask her if she was bi tho.. but anywho.... i was sitting there all alone and she comes up and sits next to me and was like hey laura! and i was like hey! and she was like talking to me for a min. and then she went to go hang out with her other friends but when she went to go hang out with them (i had my hands like folded on my lap while i was sitting there) and she was like "im gonna leave u in ur lonlieness (sp) now ok?" (in a joking way) and when she said that she put her hand on my hands then like slid them down over my leg to the bench (i cant explain that better) then got up and left
2007-02-05 08:52:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
my question is "is there any chance that she likes me?"
2007-02-05 08:52:52 · update #1
this is my second question about this girl we talk alot i would say she considers us as friends cuz she was talking to her friend and introduced me and said this is my friend laura so im pretty sure were friends but im just not sure if she likes me more cuz my "gaydar" dosnt work too well with girls so im asking yall for help so please help
2007-02-05 09:00:34 · update #2
the thing is... im not sure if she knows i even like girls... and i dont want to ask her is shes bi and freak her out if shes not so i wanna kinda make sure theres a high chance shes bi and/or likes me b4 i ask her cuz it could ruin our friendship if shes not bi
2007-02-05 09:03:52 · update #3
if she knew i like girls she would think im bi not lesbian cuz i told this one kid in 9th grade who told me about most of the girls in 9th grade being bi and i never told him im lesbian now but i begged him to tell me who was bi but he wouldnt bugde
2007-02-05 09:08:26 · update #4
this is to ret,marine:
i make my own dinner every night! i make my own breakfeast and lunch too! i pay for my own lunch when i get hot lunch at school too and i buy most of my clothes, and food, and stuff that i want i buy with my own money that i work for and earn! so dont say i cant make my own dinner! i know im a lesbian trust me! well i at least know i like girls! so im either bi or lesbian but most likely im lesbian cuz i cant even picture myself with a guy!
2007-02-05 09:37:28 · update #5
well seems like your in a real rut here hun. i say you wait a bit, see if she shows anymore signs and if she does tell her how you feel! she might feel the same way! and if she doesn't well u win some u lose some its life.
2007-02-05 10:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by thedemonofthehiddenmist 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does she know you're a lesbian?
I'm a guy but i think that might help if she knew. I can ask my girlfriend about this. She's bi and had somewhat of the same situation with her prior girlfriend.
ps
there are a lot of bi girls in 9th grade
2007-02-05 17:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by LoSTcaUsE326 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Tatu,
i have read many of your questions over the past few weeks, and yes, i really do think there is a chance that she likes you.. she seems to go out of her way to talk to you and to be nice to you.. she has even dropped little hints that she may like you "more than a friend" so yes, there definitely is a chance..
2007-02-05 16:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
way to young to know what even you like,, you cant even make a full dinner yet you decided you are a lesbian,, geez grow up pleeeeeze,, i know people in thier 50s that dont know yet,, 9th grade,, school bus,, oh yeah you really got it going on,, grow up first will ya,, get mature enough before you start throwing your life away
2007-02-05 17:08:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't know what to tell you. Just ask her if she is.
2007-02-05 16:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DUH OF COURSE SHE DOES!
Think about it.....how many girls would want to just say hello to a lesbian? SHe must like you.....now Im going out of this category....
2007-02-05 16:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
u may kno by the way she looks at u, wut she does around u or by the conversations that yall have if any at all
2007-02-05 16:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by jazzmyn b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might have feelings for u..lol..how kute
2007-02-05 16:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by 3Z4_TR4V!3Z4 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋