In other words, have no morals when they are single, but then all of a sudden get morals when they marry?
2007-02-05 08:50:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I must have hit a nerve on this one.
2007-02-05 09:06:14 · update #1
because that is how it works.
2007-02-05 08:54:12 · answer #1 · answered by bette69 5 · 1⤊ 4⤋
It's depends on the woman not all women sleep around but I think there is a lot of double standards in what women can and can't do when men do it without question. I think as long as you are safe and protect yourself and others that's your business. As far as once they are married not all women are faithful either so if you have morals you need to find a woman that shares those same morals and you will be good!
2007-02-05 08:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by Diva Dee 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
First of all I would't put ALL the women in this category. I don't sleep aroud when I am single. Believe it or not, some women sleep around even more when they are married, because they get tired of the same thing, they get bored, and start looking for some advanture, and find thenselves cheating on their husbands. It all depends on the type of a person you are. But the women you are talking about sleep around a lot because they are SINGLE, and they think it's ok to do that, they think they can enjoy their lives while they still can, before they get married.
2007-02-05 09:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by Kisawanta 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
lol hummmmm so u think that she should sleep around when shes married? or are u saying a woman should never sleep around but that its ok for a man but not a female..??.. id rather a person get it out of their system first so their not sitting there one day wondering what it would be like with someone else then leaving me because curiousity killed the cat.. Id be happy to be married to someone that had enough morals to make a promise and keep it once married..
2007-02-05 08:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
For one thing not all women who are single sleep around. Another thing is when you get married you are making a commitment to the one you marry. I mean would you want to marry someone that continues to sleep around with others?
2007-02-05 08:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Not all women sleep around when they are single...but I get your drift. It is very common for the sex to dry up when a couple gets married, which makes you wonder doesnt it. Maybe they sleep around to lure the man they want, then when they get what they want, the sex is no longer important. Not all women are like that. A woman who trully enjoys intimate times with their man pre marriage, will enjoy it probably ten times as much after they are married. I guess it has to do with conditioning. I was bought up to think that sex was dirty. I had to do a lot of soul searching to realise it wasnt....It is a wonderful experience...It makes me feel good, so why would I deliberately not have sex after I was married. It would be like cutting off your nose to spite your face.
Maybe the women you are talking about never really enjoyed sex and just used it as a tool to get what they wanted. Maybe the man lost interest and didnt spend as much time turning her on as he once did when she was single. I think there can be many reasons why the sex dries up after marriage, but it usually is to do with both the man and the woman...its called taking each other for granted. You also have to realise that when children come along there is not as much time as you once had. The man needs to work to provide for his family, and everything, if you are not careful can become very routine. For a solid relationship to endure, you have to make time for each other, if not on a daily basis, on a weekly basis. You have to spend quality time with one another without all the outside pressures....that is the only way the relationship will remain healthy. I dont think you can put the blame solely on a womans shoulders...although in some cases you are very right, but in the majority of cases the pressures of this world and raising a family sometimes takes precedence over the loving, intimate times you once shared when you were single. Everyone is different, and what you have said, in a lot of cases can be seen to be true, but if you look a little deeper you will probably find the reason why that part of the marriage has gone. You have to make time for one another. You have to want to be intimate...You have to enjoy it...If it is a chore on either part, then it stands to reason, you wouldnt want to do it much. Just a point I need to mention...this stuff about no morals I dont happen to agree with. A man is called a stud when he sleeps with different women, but a woman is classed as a slut or a whore when they do the same thing...double standards.
2007-02-05 09:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Um, the definition of committment is to be, well... committed. Until you make a promise, you can do whatever it is that you want to do. I'm all for keeping promises, this is why I don't make them that often. If I don't think I can make it to a friend's BBQ, I will tell her I won't be there; how would it be "immoral"? But if I swear up and down I will be coming, and then won't show up - it's bad, in my book. Same with marriage... it's a promise; just don't make it if you can't keep it.
2007-02-05 09:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it is about morals. If someone will sleep around then they are not basing their descisons on morals. I think it is commitment that keeps them from "screwing" around anymore. It doesn't mean they have any higher set of morals because they are married they our now just committed to a relationship.
2007-02-05 09:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by Jewells 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm not sure where you are meeting women, but we are not all like that. Most of us have morals before and after marriage.
2007-02-05 08:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DUDE! I gotta better question for you. Why do guys want girls to sleep with them after one date, but want their wifes and daughters to be virgins until their married?
Talk about morals. It's one thing if you set your own morals, but to judge someone elses is something not even Jesus would do.
2007-02-05 08:59:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
will for one not all women are that way ok,
an 2 there making a promise to there husbend an to them selfs an to GOD an most keep it an when you are married it is a secred thing between husbend an wife . if your out lookin for a married woman to go sleep with your messed up in the head
2007-02-05 08:56:40 · answer #11 · answered by SGT SEXY MAMA 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋