my bf is moving out of the country. im only 16 and i want to know wat to do. ill be lost without him.
2007-02-05 08:36:23 · 30 answers · asked by boy_matt_sexy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Although you may feel lost without him, time will pass and wounds will heal. You will be fine.
2007-02-05 08:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
It may hurt now but I think it would be best to break up. At your age a long distance relationship just isnt going to work.
I know it may feel like you heart is breaking but at the end of the day you will get over it. I promise, and you'll move on. But do you really want the heartache of not being able to be with the person you love?
I think that if you can stay on friendly terms all the better but I'm really sorry sweetie for people our age, long distance hardly work for friends never mind people who are in love.
I hope you get over your heartache soon enough and are back on your feet soon.
2007-02-05 08:54:15 · answer #2 · answered by N00b londoner 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you and your bf are meant to be together then you will both get through him moving away. If things dont work out then it cant have been meant to be and your mr perfect is out there somewhere. Yourstill young and have alot of living to do befor you settle downwith someone. Concentrate on your future and get an education and a good job. keep in touch with text and email and see how things goes. You may end up out growing each other and decide to stay friends or you might stay together and have a future together. Keep yourself busy and enjoy your life and see what happens. good luck
2007-02-05 09:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by thedaddy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wen i was 16 i felt exactly the same.my bf was in the army and i cudnt bare the fact of not seeing him for more than a night. Now at 20 i luk back and fink wot a d**k I was, You don't realise how much of a fool you are untill you age a couple of years. Don't waste your time with someone who can't be with you, not as your so young. i broke up with my bf and i admit the first couple of days wer hard but after that i met a new fella and i fogot all about the ex gud luk- be strong xx
2007-02-07 07:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by xhelenx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 16 trust me your life is not going to end.
Just keep the memories and with a little time go back to dating again. You are so young don;t get hooked on one person like that. You will feel lost at first but you will bounce back. My god you have so many years ahead of you too worry about more important things
I don't think the poster is a girl so offering vibrator advice is not going to work
2007-02-05 08:50:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know right now it feels like the end of the earth, and all us adults telling you that you will meet someone else will sounds really patronising but believe me it is true..
Life will go on, yes it will be painful at 1st, but time is a great healer.
Just keep your friends close, you will need people you can rely on to be there and look forward to the future..
2007-02-06 23:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is in another country and is often as hes a soldier but are love is so strong weve held our long distance relationship for 4 years.Hes home every 6 months for 6 months home.just try u never know
2007-02-06 04:52:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 16 as well and i dont know what i would do if my bf moved away so i feel your pain... but we are very young to know what will happen... this is what i would do.. i would try the long distance relationship so that way in the future you wont be asking yourself "what if i had done this..." see what it is like and who knows... maybe .. MAYBE it will work.. you never know... but if someone else you come across and its someone amazing, dont give up the opportunity to get to know them.. and if theres something good going for you there.. then let it go... distance can be .. ugh... your worse eney... specially when you dont even know what he is doing down there... but if you are willing to try it and so is he.. then go for it and i wish you two the best..
2007-02-05 09:26:48 · answer #8 · answered by Jessie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really think that with the age that you are you shouldn't worry about it. You'll find other guys...you will. I promise...but, if you really love him and you think that you can make it with him being gone from the country and you know you can trust him and he knows that he can trust you...then i think that you should give it a try...but only if you guys both know that neither of you will hurt the other one and that you know you can make it with each other being so far apart. And only if you love each other enough to do this...good luck and i hope it works out.
2007-02-05 08:39:57 · answer #9 · answered by Sally Doll 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
considering your 16 you could move with him if ur not still at skool but i wouldnt leeve my mates and family but ppl see things ddiffrently .. but then agen ur only 16 uve gotta hole life ahead of ya to enjoy. so u could try a long distance reletionship or tell him how u feel. But it also depends y hes moving.
2007-02-06 07:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by jessicamannuk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny you can try a long distance relationship but they dont often work, if i was you i would just see how it goes but dont hold yourself back if things develop with someone else whilst he is gone good luck
2007-02-07 22:21:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋