We dont get along well, and we're on the brink of a divorce so, should I acknowledge our anniversary in any way?
2007-02-05 08:35:56 · 16 answers · asked by Sweetheart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can't decide if you're incredibly thoughtful or rather bizarre! Why stop at a card? Celebrate in style with dinner out, then dancing, and then a romp in bed. Might as well enjoy the final stages of your marriage.
2007-02-05 08:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You never know what can rekindle a dying flame so I say, plan a whole evening. Give him a card with a "gift certificate" in it. Make the gift certificate redeemable in the boudoir! ;)
Set the scene with candles, a nice soft scent fragrancing the entire home, a delicious home cooked meal (or store bought if you don't cook), buy something sexy from VS and just wow him! It might not work, but at least you gave it a try.
2007-02-05 16:53:33 · answer #2 · answered by Carlover29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is do you want to get a divorce if you do than do not acknowledge it but if your willing to make it work it would be a good opportunity to mend fences and love each other again.
2007-02-05 18:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe just acknowledge it in words. A card would be difficult to say the right thing or the right way.
2007-02-05 16:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by pittsburgh-girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i feel you still should... Why are you on the verge of divorce if i may ask and why can you not get along with him? Have you been to marriage counseling yet? Make him a nice dinner too... who knows this may surprise him and change something in your marriage. you never know!
2007-02-05 16:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skip the card, but go on a date with him. Even ifyou are on theverge of divorce, it owuld be nice to talk as friends and reminisce good memories, for old time's sake.
Good luck
2007-02-05 16:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a card would be great, something from the heart so he knows you still care about the marriage and are willing to work on it. at least then you can say you attempted to make it better.
2007-02-05 16:47:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't about "Him" it's about you. Do you still love him? If so it shouldn't matter. Should it. Give him the damn thing. It's only a card. Men don't even care about most of that **** they are only worried about what toys or enjoyment they get.
2007-02-05 16:48:17 · answer #8 · answered by TMAC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say "happy anniversary." no need to buy a card or anything else unless you are going to try to work things out.
2007-02-05 16:42:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to work on your relationship? If so, giving him a card might just be the start of something. If you aren't want to work things out, it might give him false hope.
2007-02-05 16:39:45 · answer #10 · answered by mark my words 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋