2007-02-05 08:35:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
to escape from mundane reality mate
2007-02-05 08:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by Troubled Joe(the ghost of) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...good question. Why do we have dreams? Daydreams? Ambitions? They're all an extension of the reality of our here and now into other scenarios that are positive to us. Some people have dreams where they can fly, and experience the positive sensation of being that free. Some people have ambitions to be successful, famous, rich, whatever...and these ambitions give them pleasure and sometimes help stimulate them or motivate them to achieve more than they otherwise would. Similarly fantasies are and extension of our sexual selves into scenarios that give us pleasure in themselves. Sometimes, we then take these fantasies and turn them into realities, being sufficiently motivated by the pleasure they give us to want to realise them (in the same way as ambitions of success or wealth do, etc). Sometimes, we prefer to keep them pristine in our minds, and like the dream of flying, they allow us a private pleasure within the walls of our own head.
As I say, the "why" is probably some function of our mind's ability to visualise oursleves in other scenarios to that in which we live today, our ability to plan and self-motivate through the pleasurable act of imagination.
2007-02-05 08:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by mdfalco71 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a way our mind tells ourselves what we desire.. it also allows up to play out potential ideas and scenerios in our minds.. it's a planning process that allows up to learn more about who we are and what we want.. it also allows us to imagine a desired state for which we may not actually want in real life..
2007-02-05 09:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is part of human nature,perfectly normal.However i would point out that fastasy and reality are different..and there are times when they should be kept separate.
2007-02-05 08:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so that we can kno what we want to do to make a final or maybe big impression
2007-02-05 08:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by jazzmyn b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because otherwise life would be boring.
2007-02-05 08:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by behrmark 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is the only way you will get to do stuff that will never happen for real.
2007-02-05 08:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not?......fantasies help to spice up your life..
2007-02-05 14:07:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because thats just how we r
2007-02-05 08:41:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So we can for fill them.
2007-02-05 08:38:19 · answer #10 · answered by Robb the B.D.C. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋