the baby will be born October 13, 2007 the baby will be 11/2 months old will it be too much for the baby to go through all the wedding hassel what u think?
2007-02-05 08:30:12 · 17 answers · asked by haileyannie 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
HMM,my,my that is cutting it close.....HMM..well, I think maybe either you should move it the wedding up, or wait until 6-8 weeks after you have the baby!
But that's you and your fiance's call,not mine.
2007-02-05 08:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by Two Peas 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend is having a baby end of april and getting married in June of this year. Everything is working out just fine (she also has a 18 month old right now too) for her. She made plans for the kids to be in someone's care for the day. I believe it's her sister for the oldest and her sister in law for the youngest. I got married when our daughter was 7 months old and I did the same thing, my aunt had her the whole time. I just had her bag packed and everything my aunt needed for the night already taken care of before the big day. I think it's fine! The biggest problem my friend had was the wedding dress right now. She was scared to order it thinking she might be bigger at the wedding. The place was really nice though and had her order the dress a size bigger so they could make alterations at that time if they need to. Good Luck!
2007-02-05 08:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by angie_laffin927 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you that when my son was 6 weeks old I would not have felt like throwing a big party and being the center of attention. The first six weeks are difficult because there are so many things to figure out. for example, there are allergies that might come out, stomach problems, etc. If I were you I would wait until your little munchkin is 3 months old at least. Good Luck with making up your mind and Congratulations on your baby - you are a very lucky woman to be having a baby and marrying the man of your dreams!!!!
2007-02-06 11:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by cklus1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as the planning and everything it may become stressful which can cause problems but as long as you take it easy you and the baby will be OK.
Me and my husband got married when our daughter was 1 month 13days old. I just took it easy with the planning and had a lot of help from my family and his along with our bridal party. The only thing that I wish I did was wait on getting the dress resizing. (During the last week of the planning I had a little shrinkage of the top half lol)
But as long as you have bottles ready for the baby for the day of the wedding you should be fine about the feeding times. Just take it slow and easy with the planning and you should be fine. And so will the baby.
2007-02-05 09:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by chrissy_scholl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the baby, are you going to be up to all the wedding hassle 6 weeks post natal??
If this is your first pregnancy you may well go 2 weeks overdue, have you taken this into consideration?
You might be asking to much of yourself, is there a possibility you can postpone the wedding until the baby is a little older?
Baby will be fine, s/he will just be eating and sleeping at that stage. Not worrying about weddings!
2007-02-05 08:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think your question should have been... WILL IT BE TOO MUCH FOR ME TO TAKE CARE OF BABY AND WEDDING PLANS... The baby? Won't remember. haha. The baby? Will probably not care if you wear a white dress or our night-gown. I think that you should move the wedding up to this Spring. Do it while you still fit into your dress.
2007-02-05 08:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself, your fiance, the child and your guests a favor, get a babysitter for the big day.
At 1 1/2 mo the baby will eat every 2-4 hours. You will be in a beautiful WHITE dress. Formula and white satin and lace are not a pretty combo.
Besides, it is YOUR day. Nothing ruins the mood of romance and celebration and the colicy cries of a small child.
2007-02-05 08:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by Crazymom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No not at all..u are doing what is best for your baby right now by getting married after the birth...I think the date is fine and will work out well..Babies at that age sleep through everything anyways so he/she wont mind a bit..good luck and congrats!!
2007-02-05 08:43:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave the baby with a babysitter or someone. Because you will be with a bunch of your friends and family.. People might be getting drunk.... What if the baby starts crying. Just leave the baby behind.. Have fun finding a dress right after having a baby
2007-02-05 08:40:33 · answer #9 · answered by Carly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think th e baby will be fine, it's you that it's gonna be too much for. Any chance of delaying, bumping up? If not, enlist in some great friends and family to help.
2007-02-05 08:33:24 · answer #10 · answered by punkin_eater26 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋