I do - even though I have a family, friends, work colleagues...etc.
2007-02-05 08:28:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I have lots of people I can talk to - I just dont want to. Im quite a reserved person.
2007-02-05 08:42:47 · update #1
Feelings of loneliness in a world full of people often equate with feeling unloved. Are you really that difficult to live with or unattractive physically that no-one could even begin to like you? I doubt it. It's all a matter of perception, of how we see ourselves and that can change so quickly.
I am naturally a warm and smiley sort of person (I like to think) but if someone responds with a frown or a growl, I soon feel worthless. There's nothing worse than an undeserved put-down to make you feel that way, I find and some people seem to delight in doing that.
I resolved a long time ago to try and say something nice to people who may be feeling low, without being patronising, and to help them feel valued. It works and that way I find myself beginning to believe they could like me too.
A step further is to share a hug with someone. If you can do that unconditionally and without them thinking "What's the game", it's so rewarding. Many people, even those I just met or hardly know, have told me that that was just what they needed - and that makes me feel a mile high.
Of course it carries risks with it, and you have to know where the line is drawn, so if in doubt, better hold back. But 99% of the time it works, so pluck up your courage and give it a try. Both yourself and others could discover a lovely new you.
2007-02-05 08:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and I believe everyone does at some time or another. You can feel lonely in a large crowd.. It is probably one of the worst emotions you can experience and Ive felt it many times in my life for various reasons. luckly It is something that can be dealt with either by changes of fortune or by self determination or other factors in your life.
2007-02-05 16:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I have family around almost all the time, but I'm missing something. The woman I want to be with lives far away. But I guess that's what hopes and dreams are for.
2007-02-05 16:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
your question gave me a reason to think a lot,i have many friends, i'm working hard in a bank, and have enough money to have fun, but still, i have something inside that gives me a feeling that i/m alone, i think this is a type of depresion. , think there are two ways togo through, 1, have a good girlfriend and have sex, 2 go to gym
2007-02-06 12:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by jesushadawife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me too. Sometimes I just don't seem to relate to people...
But I typically snap out of it. If you find yourself feeling lonely all the time, you may have clinical depression and may want to talk to a professional about it.
Good luck and take care!
2007-02-05 16:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by allthree 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I feel like I am the only person in the world who has no one to care for or about me but me. So, yes, I do feel lonely sometimes.
2007-02-05 16:32:50 · answer #6 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes , i often feel like nobody can understand what i am goin through and do not even want to talk to my family about it but i do get in contact eventually, i think that they are all used to me now and justb wait for me to contact them and strangely enough it puts my mind at ease.
2007-02-05 17:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi me (again) yes i can be in a room full of people and feel lonely. i think it is a lot to do with your up bringing and your expierences i would say that your childhood was not great or you have suffered some way as you have this feeling maybe i am wrong but i doubt it . try not to think of yourself as alien as i am sure you do otherwise why are you lonely good luck to you we all have to learn to live within ourselves please don,t think i am preaching
2007-02-05 16:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by Ken M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. Im married and havea beautiful baby girl but I am very lonely. The one relationship that really means so much to me ( my husband) we dont have a very close relationship and I get very lonely because he is supposed to be the one that knows me and loves me most but he doesnt. I get very lonely. but my daughter keeps me smilling. I know she will always love me and I cherish each smile she gives me...od has gotten me through most of it. Where would i be without him yknow?
2007-02-05 16:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by chicwitpurpose 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do.It's sad how even the ones you love and care about the most can make you feel that way!My husband does that alot sometimes.
2007-02-05 16:32:42 · answer #10 · answered by IAM2INSANE 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋