I think I am falling in love with my boss at work, he is a very caring person. But I have a partner and a child.I feel that i can relate with my boss than my partner. what should i do?
2007-02-05 08:22:16 · 10 answers · asked by happiness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are (and you already know this) looking into dangerous territory in a lot of ways. Contemplating being unfaithful is dangerous. Thinking of breaking up an exisiting family is dangerous. A relationship between a boss and subordinate is dangerous.
At home, concentrate on what you can do to make life with your partner and child better.
At work, concentrate on what you can do to do your job better. Keep your feelings for your boss on the back burner. If it seems necessary to look for another job to keep your family together, then do it.
2007-02-05 08:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Wise Advice 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy, gotta agree...this is a train wreck waiting to happen. Don't do it, it will take you places you never thought you'd go, and I don't mean good places. First off if you do get involved with someone at work, look at little bit ahead - what happens if everything goes bad? He's your boss, so unless you are Demi Moore and planning to pull off a mullti million dollar harassment suit, chances are you will be out of a job. Oh ya, and even Demi didn't fair so well!
2007-02-05 16:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A woman always falls for a good looking boss or even a ugly one. I think it is the power that a woman likes, that their is the one they have to look up to and you just start really caring for this person. My first 2 jobs if I hadn't of been married , I would have slept with them in a New York second. I would just get all just shook up when we were alone in my office I just felt like, just ask and thou shall receive. One was so handsome with bedroom eyes it just turned you upside down , the other one was ugly but he was older a great personality and he could also received. I'd just get the HEEBIE JEEBIES, but after I divorced and finished college I never felt that way about any other boss I have had, ,because I have just about as much power as they do. It's just the power you fall for, I look back now and laugh about it.
2007-02-05 16:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by Nicki 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you decide to make your Boss as your partner , then again you have to look for a new Boss!! to get that special care!!
2007-02-05 16:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by bird 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is a true good boss, he wouldn't get himself in trouble but giving you any wrong signals. You are inflatuated by someone with power or higher authority.
2007-02-05 16:31:14 · answer #5 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. Think of your husband and child rather than your perceived needs.
2007-02-05 16:27:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop thinking about yourself, and think about your child, and partner. quit your job, and move on.
2007-02-05 16:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I vote for Grow Up.
What you think love is, is beyond me.
2007-02-05 16:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by Flagger 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I liken this situation to a train wreck...................nothing but a big fat mess you wished never would of happen!
2007-02-05 16:28:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL...........I'D LET YOUR BOSS BE THE FIRST TO MAKE THE MOVE.
2007-02-05 16:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by SPANKY 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋