I am not thinking of having sex any time soon but am worried about when I do. What do you do for the first time. I mean I know what you do I just don't know exactly what to do. How was your first time?
2007-02-05 08:19:04 · 11 answers · asked by Candice 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I'm 15 years old.
2007-02-05 08:31:15 · update #1
I think you should only have sex if you have a boyfirend for a long time, and trust him. Dont do one night stands you dont get out as much enjoyment.
Also remember than boys at your age (includes me) are also pretty unfamiliar with this and may be nerveous as well. We might however not show it and just pretend to do what we think is right as stereotypes tells us that we should know these stuff even if we dont. So to do it reallly good i think comes with experience, which rarely makes the first time really enjoyable.
And if ure gonna do it, dont forget protection.
PS. (in response to your post, nice were both from massachusetts. Lexington here)
2007-02-05 09:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by Link 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had my first time at 15. You basically just do what feels right. There's not much that the girl does because she doesn't have anything to do something with, if you know what I mean, so just hold and rub and kiss him.
I really wish that I had waited until I was married though. It was the biggest mistake of my life not to wait. Don't let that happen to you.
2007-02-05 18:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by funkymonkeyduck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 16... recently had my first time.. the guy was really sweet... usually the guy has more knowledge so he will lead you, just make sure he has patience and takes it slow... it wasnt bad... i think i should of waited until i was older though.. so dont rush into doing it.. because even though it is soo amazing and its great... it is a big responsibility... there are many STDs out there and being pregnant at a young age is not good.... so for now, i stopped having sex until im ready because i dont think at 16 i was ready at all.. so dont make the mistake of having sex soo young... do it with the right person and when you know you can assume responsibility for possible outcomes... soo... be careful...
2007-02-05 17:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jessie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There isn't only one way to do it. (That would be so boring!) You go with the moment and do what you feel like; the more natural and uninhibited you are, the better it'll be!
My first time was lousy, though, because the guy was terrible. Second time was great, though (different guy.)
2007-02-05 19:19:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did bleed when I made love for the first time. But, I also waited until I got married at the age of 28. Your body will know what to do! Please wait and save your self! It is so worth it!!! Good men want to marry women who are virgins! Trust me!
2007-02-05 17:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young for this question or answer.
Do not have sex until you are in a committed adult relationship. Guys don't want girls that have been used and been around the block. If you want real men to look at you as a real woman, then take care of yourself and not give into the peer pressure.
Save yourself for a man that will love and respect you.
2007-02-05 16:23:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Breathe and relax by picturing your man in bunny ears. Giggle a little, kiss gently and mirror what your man does. If he nibbles your ear for ex., remember what he did and do it after he finishes on you or save it for later. This a good technique in general, so you don't end up over analyzing the situation. Always use protection - no if's or but's about it.
2007-02-05 16:25:12 · answer #7 · answered by Blue Bombay 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The first thing u gotta do, is stop seeking help on the net. Go to Barnes & Nobles or another bookstore and go to the sex sexction, start reading and educate yourself......Thats how I learned and my gf never believed me I was a virgin. DAMN IM GOOD!!!
2007-02-05 16:30:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
you just go with your basic intstint its not hard it all come natural i cant tell you about my first time because i lost my virginity when i was drunk and i regret that very much. you will know when the time comes trust me.
2007-02-05 16:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are sure you are in love. You will be happier if you do
2007-02-05 17:28:14 · answer #10 · answered by hot rod 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋