Or after having children?
2007-02-05 08:16:21 · 45 answers · asked by mommyofmegaboo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For " * "... did you just copy and past an article in here? That's considered plagarism, ya know. AND It didn't even answer the question.
2007-02-05 10:30:17 · update #1
It is perfectly normal to have a decrease in your sex drive, esp. after childbirth. Think about it. You are a constant care-taker of another very needy human being, and feeling like a sexy woman is probably not high on your totem pole. Not to mention the after effects of pregnancy. It takes a bit of adjustment to believe in the post-birth body is sexy thing. My advice from having been there. Make it a priority in your life to be hot and sexy. Take time for yourself and get back to the gym. This will not only make your Bum more toned, but boost your endorphins. Also, don't be so hard on yourself. You just participated in a miracle by carrying and bringing your child into this world. Kudos to you my dear. All will be well. take care of yourself and you will have more to disperse.
2007-02-12 16:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by smp1969 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this isn't an issue for women human beings, only for adult adult males. women human beings don't have an identical chemical structure as adult adult males, which ends up in a lot less sexchronic than adult adult males. even as they change into drained of their associates, psychological lack of pastime decreases the sexchronic even extra. it is going to take a sparkling romance to deliver decrease back the sexchronic in a familiar living house spouse. it truly is why 60% of the girls human beings cheat on their spouses. The question isn't even if marriage as an organization may be kept, yet might want to it is kept? It has out lived its usefulness, toddlers are reared and supported with assistance from social establishments. women human beings can now inherit and private property, so what's the point of marriage on the hot time.
2016-11-02 10:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not married now but was for a long time, and I did experience a decrease in sex after my kids, after each one for about a month, and then it picked back up. Sex was not the reason we parted. You have to keep your relationship moving, sex has to be exciting sometimes, spontaneous, wild, different, not all the time but sometimes, kick it up a notch. You will find yourself wanting it more. That is the best time you can have with your mate/spouse. No kids, shut the world out, get a sitter, etc, and rock his world, you will find that you will rock your own too! Good luck, have fun with it
2007-02-05 08:25:23 · answer #3 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes R/T a sift in hormones you sex drive will be decreased.
You also lack the energy to perform adequately after dealing with children. The STRESS is unerotic. HOWEVER to keep your husband happy pretend like your sex drive is normal cuz they'll never understand N E way. Remember that after having a baby you are experiencing a BODY IMAGE Disturbance.
HOW CAN YOU B SEXY FOR YOUR HUSBAND WHEN YOUR NOT SEXY TO YOURSELF?
1. YOUR NOT THE ONLY ONE WHOSE EXPERIENCE THIS
2. IF YOU DON'T SATISFY HIM SOMEONE ELSE WILL
3. MEN THINK WITH THEIR LIL HEAD NOT THE BIG ONE'
4. THEY REALLY DON'T CARE HOW WE FEEL(EMOTIONALLY ) JUST HOW WE FEEL (INTIMATELY)
P.S. PUT ON SOMETHING SEXY AND INVEST IN K-Y JELLY
2007-02-12 18:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by clueless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every women is different and some women sex drive does decrease after children and when respondsibilties become more important to you. I think the sexual connection that you have with your spouse is important and should be worked on just like every other aspect of your marriage or relationship.
Most women feel like their sex drive decreases when really they just need more time to get turn on than before.
I hope that helps and I believe personally my sex drive increase
2007-02-05 08:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by prettyinanything 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yup. I think thats common for marriage. I have been married 2 years and the sex drive definately goes down.
2007-02-11 05:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by #1wifey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! After marriage and 3 kids
2007-02-05 08:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by Winnie08_98 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot of women experience this problem. You need to start watching porn and reading erotic literature to get you in the mood.
Also, stop thinking of yourself as just "a mommy." You are your husband's lover. Don't dress like a mommy; stop only talking about your kids; start thinking of yourself as a woman.
2007-02-10 07:13:47 · answer #8 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DID NOT HAVE A LOWER SEX DRIVE AFTER MARRIAGE,BUT AFTER THE BIRTH OF MY SECOND CHILD I DID.I HAD GOTTEN A THIRD DEGREE TARE THAT TOOK FOREVER TO HEAL. I LOST THE DRIVE BECAUSE INTERCOURSE BECAME TOO PAINFUL AND I WAS STRESSED OUT. THIS WAS A TOUGH PERIOD IN MY MARRIAGE BECAUSE MY HUSBAND AND I BOTH HAVE A HIGH SEX DRIVE AND THE SEX IS GREAT.IT TOOK 2 YEARS FOR THINGS TO GET BACK TO NORMAL FOR ME AND IT IS EVEN BETTER NOW.
2007-02-13 02:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but i was also like this before marriage ok cause i had a hysterectomy years ago and ive been in menepause since i had the surgery ok. i still get turned on tho by my husband its just my sex drive is different than his or other woman and men ok
2007-02-11 11:55:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋