I am bi...but whenever I am having sex with a man (I am in a committed relationship with a man), all I can think about is being the man and making love to a woman (strap on and everything). This is nearly EVERYTIME.
Is this normal or am I getting over the "bi" part and becoming women only?
Has any other woman felt this way?
2007-02-05 07:57:08 · 8 answers · asked by Melanie 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No I am very fem with no thoughts of becoming a man...ugh...I could so not get my nails done...
I just love the thought of being with a woman and doing this.
Don't actually have the guts to bring it up with anyone and actually "do" it.
2007-02-05 08:56:03 · update #1
im not sure but i think ur are mostly comfy doing that with women..i have but dont worry its normal
2007-02-05 09:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by 3Z4_TR4V!3Z4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, this sounds more like transsexual or transgenderism than bisexuality.. i feel the same way. i often feel i am a woman trapped in a male body. i have never been able to have sex with a woman as it just doesn't feel right. i feel more comfortable with the idea of being in the female roles in sex..
have you always been like this? or is this something new? were there times you loved this man and enjoyed being the female role in sex? have you enjoyed sex and/or romance with other men?
could be you are legit bisexual who also has transgendered/transsexual thoughts..
do you always feel like you want to be a man? or only during sexual activities?
you may want to explore your feelings further with a gender thearapist.. i am trying to find a good gender therapist myself.
i honestly don't think i can live a happy life until i can transition to become a woman full time.. it's certainly a tough situation to be in. but yes, you are not alone..
in my case, i feel more attracted to women, yet i desire to be a woman myself.. definitely confusing and frustrating..
is it normal? well, most bisexuals do not have transgendered thoughts.. so in that sense, it is rare..
2007-02-05 16:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is a buffet to enjoy and explore. Try new experiences as long as what you choose does not cause harm to you or those you care about.
Never let people define you by whom you have sex with. Others will label you only so they can exploit you.
2007-02-05 17:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by radical4capitalism 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I havent ever felt this way, but I often wonder what its like to have a penis. What it feels like to ejaculate and stuff... but anywho, have you ever has sex using a strap? If not, try it, i'm not sayin cheat on ur man (i'm seriously against cheating) but u need to act on what your feeling so you wont miss out on your happiness.
2007-02-05 16:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by {{...Ladi...}} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, I feel this way almost all the time. I love my bf with all my heart but I just can't help but to think this way. I don't want to leave him at all, I love him and I have never been with a girl before.
2007-02-05 16:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by wonderwomen582000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sounds like a peculiarity. You might be losing interest in men, or it just might be a fantasy you like engaging during intercourse in order to make things as hot as they can be.
If you find yourself feeling less and less attracted to men, you might be shifting your preference to women.
If, however, you like men just as fine as you always have, but still like having these fantasies, I think it's just an idiosyncracy, and nothing to worry about. Enjoy it!
2007-02-05 23:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and because of it I am now transgendered and binding my chest.
2007-02-05 16:01:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. its propably just your personality.
2007-02-05 16:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by Answerer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋