Have you ever had mixed feelings for the one you're with? I think it's because i am not used to being treated this good because it happened to the other 2 nice guys i was with. It's like i try to find the littlest things about them that i don't like. What they wear, how they walk ..little things to make me believe i want more. and the mixed feelings i mean are like sometimes you feel like you want to be with him and others you don't. Have any of you ever been like this but got through it? How long did it take and what did you do to get through it?
2007-02-05 07:55:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Hello there!
According to what are you saying...it seems that you are superficial in love. I mean you love with heart, why do you mind about little things?
Being in love is big thing. But it seems that you haven't fall in love truly...and that's why you are trying to find something that you don't like...as an excuse not to love him.
No body is perfect...but when you are in love everything seems perfect about person you love.
I hope I you understood my point...I wish you good luck!
2007-02-08 06:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget it..if you can make yourself feel like you want more than you do and that means your settling for whats nice or comfortable for you . Instead of whats perfect for you. Personally I dont think you know what your looking for and therefore are not ready for any kind of commitment and that will tend to make you a user of people. That is massively uncool and the word will get around about you real fast. Good luck you are going to need it.
2007-02-05 08:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely coming off a divorce merely about 11 years contained in the previous i found i will't have self belief really all and multiple diverse than myself, my mom and father and my magnificent chum. It took me awhile to have self belief my boyfriend. i have were given been with him for over 5 years or perchance now i'm now no longer really particular it gained't ultimately finally end up badly, i desire it gained't. i have were given been fortunate he has been affected human being knowledge what i have were given been with assistance from. when I commence to journey doubts with connection with the relationship i attempt to take a deep breath and hit upon something to take my recommendations off what made me journey those doubts, like staring at a comedy.
2016-11-02 10:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋