What is wrong with some men anyway??

Question

Notice I said SOME, so don't jump me.

I'm really upset that someone can sign over all rights to their own child to avoid having to pay child support and then three years later decide they want those rights back. The money is not an issue and never has been. My issue is his failure to see his daughter as anything more than a hobby.

Sure, he probably did it in a moment of desperation and then now is getting second thoughts.

Call me whatever you want, but that's HIS problem. It's ok to make mistakes and try to fix them until you go dragging innocent lives into the mix and confusing and upsetting their worlds.

Agree??

Answer 1

Preach it, Sister! He gave up his rights to her a long time ago. She doesn't even know him. Her Dad is the man that is there helping to take care of her, chasing the monsters out from under her bed, and protecting her from that mean old thunder. Don't let him confuse her and ruin her precious life. HE DOESN'T DESERVE HER PRECIOUS LOVE AND SMILES..........

Answer 2

I'm sure that there ARE some men out there that think of their actions before they do them, and who think about someone besides themselves, and who would admit that someone else is right besides them. But I don't think that I've ever met one in 44 years. Sorry, I'm having a bad week. Next week I may be able to find something good to say about the opposite sex. But today, I would say that a lot of men have this problem with thinking that what they say is always right. If it's not right, then that's not what they said or not what they meant. I hate it when they come back and expect you to just let everything that was said or done slide. It doesn't matter who was hurt by it. They should just get over it, even if they are 5, 11, 16, 21, 43. Women and children aren't supposed to have feelings. We're just supposed to go with the flow of their "perfection". They don't seem to realize that there's an undertow in their wake! Sorry... I know that they can have their good qualities and that women can be every bit as bad as this. These are just some of the things getting me down right now. Good Luck.

Answer 3

They just don't have the same instincts and feelings as WE do about our children. (Sorry guys, but this is true). There is something to be said about feeling like a mother bear.

With that said, you are right, SOME just don't get it. They need a good clock on the head (which one, I won't say).

The only ones to really suffer are the innocent children.

Answer 4

Men have feelings about their children that are analogous to a mother's feelings about her children, but to them its because of the instincts they have inherited from the half of their ancestors who were women. Its like the way a man has nipples, but never feeds a baby with them. If he has formed an emotional bond with his child's mother he can experience that mothers emotions vicariously. However he's still a man, so he is not going to say anything about these feelings, particularly to a woman who has dumped him.

Answer 5

I say once he signed those rights away that should be the end of it. If the child wants to speak with this person that that is up to her. I do think people need second chances but it depends on why they need them.

Answer 6

Now he wants to be a parent? After three years? It is already three years too late, to start what he left off. Totally agree with you

Answer 7

Agree!

Answer 8

I agree with you 100%.

Answer 9

i agree 100% !!!!!!! the parents should get together and have a meeting of the minds first...weather this takes one visit or 100 visits only then get the child involved

Answer 10

Agreed.

I really don't understand how some people just wake up one day and say "I want to be a parent to my child." Don't they realize how confusing this is to the child?