He just broke up with the skank he cheated on me with, and now he asks me to move in with him with our 4 yr old son. (Word on the street is that daughter's father got out of prison & she left my ex to get back with him). There is no way in hell that I would take our son & move back in with him after all the sh!t he put me through. Oh and get this, when he cheated, the girl lived next door to us. What y'all think? I just need to vent. Serious reply's only.
2007-02-05 07:22:36 · 9 answers · asked by mimi1980 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if he had loved u he never could have left u in the first place, she has left him for the other guy, and now he finds himself alone and needy. too bad for him, karma does find them, and they really don't get away with the hurt they give to others. good u are smart enough not to buy into his drama anymore, as once bitten we do get some wisdom and we do see things differently, maybe a little less trusting, but maybe we should always have thought this way . bet it makes your day...justice done
2007-02-05 07:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has to be a great feeling when someone that has hurt you so bad has finally realized the impact and now feels regret. The ball is in your court now. You have the upper hand and he is at your mercy. If you truely love him and deep down would like to get back together especially since you two share a child; then I would say make him work very hard for it and the two of you should go to a counselor before you two move back together. You don't want your son to get real happy about having both parents together if it isn't going to work out this time. That would be too confusing and sad for him to go through. Good luck. Pray about it.
2007-02-05 09:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by Tgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow....well, sometimes it takes a serious crisis for people to realize what really matters to them...I'm so sorry it went as far as the divorce, and I would say now the ball is in your hands...do you want to be with him? If yes, I'd say serious counseling before moving back in together... If trully moved on and can't even imagine being with him, just tell him that... It might hurt, but he made the bed, now he can enjoy lying in it alone....I would also try to figure out his true intentions.... is he just afraid of being alone, or does he really realize that you and your child are what's important in this life....best of luck and stay strong....
2007-02-05 07:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by This is what I think 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do hope it is just venting you are doing and not even considering going back to your ex husband. Whatever reason was for the break up of his current situation it would be a bad mistake if you were to take him back. Good luck to you!
2007-02-05 09:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're way too bitter and indignant and now to place your son in the midst of it relatively is in basic terms easy ridiculous. enable your grownup son make his very own judgements. it relatively is not your determination. you may desire to bypass on. you're divorced - meaning you don't get to tell him what to do anymore. you choose some severe scientific care. you may desire to choose why, after 4 years of being divorced, you're nonetheless preserving directly to this anger and letting it RULE YOUR life. it relatively is not widely used. it relatively is not healthful. and you relatively might desire to discover another methods to occupy it sluggish than stressful approximately your ex who has maximum truthfully moved on. you may desire to get to the region the place you may say "That became into my previous. it relatively is not my cutting-edge and not my destiny. His selections are no longer my duty. My life is under my administration. i choose to enable this anger bypass and start to construct my life the way that i desire it to be." turn the website. enable it bypass. it relatively is not your life anymore - do no longer waste from now on time or potential in this man or woman. Please get help.
2016-10-01 11:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by tuberman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer. Don't visit the question again. It is a form of self-abuse.
2007-02-05 08:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by emberstoashes_04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay away from him. Does he think you were just waiting around for him. You are better off without him.. you go girl!!
2007-02-05 07:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. do not waste your time on him
2007-02-05 07:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEHEHEHEHEHE......It bit him in the butt.....HAHAHAHAHA......Don't you dare......
2007-02-05 07:53:51 · answer #9 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋